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Teenage parents.
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Guess this is the best place to put it.
Got to love the reaction they get, lately i've had quite a negative reaction, have to love the stigma of the "teenage parents are crap parents" this is more of a rant really but it's really doing my nut it, Can't people understand that people can BE mature and 19 and look after a kid... jeez,
More of a rant anyway but some of sociaty today sucks.
Got to love the reaction they get, lately i've had quite a negative reaction, have to love the stigma of the "teenage parents are crap parents" this is more of a rant really but it's really doing my nut it, Can't people understand that people can BE mature and 19 and look after a kid... jeez,
More of a rant anyway but some of sociaty today sucks.
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TBH, I think alot of it is to do with them being seen as still children themseleves or not quite adults yet. TBH, I'm not too sure what I think about this.
I must admit on the whole, most have been happy and anyone who knows us and sees us as parents do comment on how mature we are, but there are a few, only a few who are damn right disrespectful,
I've seen people trying to say out of my earshot (which is hard as im partial deaf) that they've ruined there life, Well why not go fucking judge someone elses life, when it affects them they can complain but if not, stfu...
Same when flying, they check my Drivers licence (internal flight) then gave me a dodgy look because im holding a child, just because my DoB is 1988, wow..
IWS, I somewhat agree with you but it doesn't give the right for the person to be damnright rude about it, I love how quite a few (and this is not a generalisation) of these people who comment are middleaged mothers who are full of themself.
I am in fact older than him.
There will always be people who judge you for your parenting decisions at whatever stage in life you are. People who have big families, people who only have one child, peoplke who have their children close together, people who are too young when they have children, people who are too old, people who have different views on discipline, gosh the list goes on.....
:yes:
Did anyone see that documentary thing on ITV One last night about teenage parents?
Which is rubbish really.
I'm sure there's a moral in there somewhere.
To have them in your early thirties
Sod them all and do what you like?
I think it's ridiculous that teenage parents are looked down upon because of their age. If they were unfit parents the baby would show signs of that. And seeing as all the teenage parents I know have happy healthy babies then....
Young people should just be seen and not heard clearly
and just to make you feel better, you're both really really good parents, and have a gorgeous little boy who i am very willing to temporaraily steal with permission...
:eek2: What debt?
And as hellfire said, so what if the pregnancy was unplanned, i bet there are just as many unplanned babies born to older women....but they wont admit to it, or "they are old/mature enough to bring a child into the world" in the words of someone i know.
Who here thinks that?
Sadly there are people...
I don't see what it has to do with teenage pregnacy though.
Surely it's better to finish education before having a child? Presumably, a 15 year old with a baby, would find it difficult or impossible to get even GCSEs, therefore not putting themselves in a good position regarding future careers etc.
There's a lot of judgemental people around though. Some girls just look young, but are in fact in their 20s, with a partner, working etc.
Hold your head up high, you've got nothing to be ashamed of.
But then with teenage parents, there's a bit of a difference between being a 13yr old mum/dad, and a 19yr old mum/dad though. Age of consent is 16 for a reason!
It makes me laugh because the baby is really happy and rarely cries, but nobody seems to think 'aw she must be doin a good job'. But then the other day we took him to the docs because he was ill and was crying. We was sat down and had so many dirty looks off people and one even said to her mate 'well she cant be taking her responsibility very seriuosly if she's in here with him'. I was fuming.
She's a single parent living with her mum. She's trying everything she can to get a house, but it seems that no-one wants to know because she's a young mum. Makes me real angry.
:eek2: that's so out of order! For all they knew she could have been taking him in for his booster shot, or a baby check up! Would still still have been a bad mother if that was what she was doing?... some people