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i dunno if im right but it sounds like its his money..
I think you're right here.
Asking for money might be a good short term solution though, or not having any cards. Only using cash. makes you see exactly how much youre spending.
Its sooo easy to overspend when you shop online.
A lot of people do it vice versa as well though. Its not unheard of for men to hand over their wage cheque for bills, expenses etc, and then just have their spending money back.
I dont fancy either of those ways, but then im not a shopaholic.
I think the main thing for me to do is be more aware of my spending and not to give in to my urges (for shopping) especially online.
TBH whether she has an addiction or not why shouldn't she spend 5K in a month if she wants? I would do it if I had the cash and I fancied it. If people have money, they can essentially spend it on what they like.
Amira clearly works hard keeping her home and they give to charity, what more do you want? Do you want her to give all the money to ungrateful paupers like you?