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Saves me a job
Basically, I was not a very nice person. I think there are good ways to be forward and bad ways to be forward. Me: bad way. Asking someone if they'd like to go out for a drink: good way. In my opinion, anyway.
I've just read this back, and really I was a bit of a bitch and a ho... ach well! Live and learn, etc, etc, etc...
To me thats just playing games, I can never be arsed with that
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same.. I am not pursuing a girl which gives me the cold shoulder. What if she's really not interested and you keep crawling after her?
either it is your one and only dream girl or you are desperately trying to get something, if you keep working on it.
I was out with lotsa people from my uni class one night and one of the girls (who I barely knew before this night) was REALLY forward. I wasn't into her, but she was sitting next to me in the pub at the table and was like rubbing her hand up leg and right up to my crotch. I didn't wanna make a scene so I just like gave her a wide-eyed disapproving expression in an attempt to get her to stop. Ended up going and sitting at other side of table to get away from her. Didn't deter her later on in the night though when we were all in a club. Came up to where I was sitting/lying in this cushioned area (it was like turkish style club with beds and stuff) and basically fell on top of me, grabbing all round. It was more or less sexual assault! If a guy did to a girl what she did to me, he could find himself in alot of bother. I told her to fuck off this time. Then to compound matters she started moaning and crying asking if she was ugly and all this stuff. No, you're not, I just don't like being felt up in the middle of clubs by girls I barely know and am not attracted to.
Sometimes forward girls are great though. I can't say I'd be complaining if it was Briggi, Lacy or Lipsy :razz: