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Hi,
Recently I have been feeling a bit depressed for the following reasons:
1.Uni work is piling up and I feel I have a huge amount to do in a matter of weeks.
2.I live in a house of three and the other two seem to be getting closer and I feel im the outsider, my room is on the ground floor and they are both upstairs and they will often talk to each other and ignore me.
3.I am supposed to be applying for a job for next year when I graduate but I have no idea what want to do and dont want to dissapoint people and take a gap year,
4. I dont feel I have that many friends at uni, I have many more at home, I always feel much happier when Im at home.
I have been eating loads of bad food etc so feeling pretty sick of myself, bloated and generally unhappy.
Please help.
Recently I have been feeling a bit depressed for the following reasons:
1.Uni work is piling up and I feel I have a huge amount to do in a matter of weeks.
2.I live in a house of three and the other two seem to be getting closer and I feel im the outsider, my room is on the ground floor and they are both upstairs and they will often talk to each other and ignore me.
3.I am supposed to be applying for a job for next year when I graduate but I have no idea what want to do and dont want to dissapoint people and take a gap year,
4. I dont feel I have that many friends at uni, I have many more at home, I always feel much happier when Im at home.
I have been eating loads of bad food etc so feeling pretty sick of myself, bloated and generally unhappy.
Please help.
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Hope some of that helped! Good luck hun, hugs, Tates x
presumably you chose to live with thm because you're friends? it may seem like theyre ignoring you but theyre not. when people are on the same floor or have rooms next to each other they will talk to them more than they would go downstairs and knock on your door. its just because its easier, not because they like you any less. of course they will get closer because they see each other more. thats why you need to make an effort and go up and see them. it might seem like 'oh why should i have to upstairs to see them all the time, they should come down to see me.' but unless you want to continue feeling lonely, you will have to make more effort.
there are 4floors in my house and im on the bottom. i know if it wasnt for the shared kitchen or living room i would barely see anyone coz i simply cannot be arsed to walk up all those steep stairs. maybe you and your friends could hang out in the living room more? suggest watching a video or something.x
Thanks for all your suggestions, I will try to take your advice!