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I've never had an orgasm even if my boyfriend is playing with me or we're having sex. I do get really turned on though but i haven't gone the full way, any help please?
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You could try rubbing around your clitoris for a few minutes.
My girly hadn't had one before we got together but now she has at least one through oral every night. Plus it makes penitrative sex afterwards much better
Keep practising though until you get it and try not to think so much about the orgasm too - obviously the more you think/worry about it the less chance you will actually orgasm.
I know what you mean by that. If you're being stimulated for a while and you're not orgasming it can get too intense. You're right to stop. What you could try doing is taking little breaks or varying it. Like he could spend two minutes using his fingers, stop for 20 seconds, then use his tongue. Just an idea.
Originally posted by *lil~miss*
oral makes me close but i get to a point where I have to make him stop coz i can't take the sensation anymore and i know i shouldnt do that.
im the same not when someone's doing it to me, when im doing it to myself pisses me off
clitoris confidence
G-spotting
Giving her good head
Enjoy!
It varies which side of a females clit is most sensative...I'm a righty
I can't believe no-one offered their services! Thats how it used to work round here - Clit Hanging. I'm feeling randy today so I'll offer the use of my tongue, mouth, clit sucking skills to get your orgasmic cycle flowing. Your boyfriend will thank me in the long run.
I shall be pondering this intimate question for most of the night, if not the whole weekend, now.
Mr_Wobble
I think the closest I came to one was with an ex during oral sex, but my current boyfriend won't give oral sex, but is perfectly willing to accept it, the selfish bastard :mad: He did say he would try it if I help teach him but I prefer someone who's experienced in it y'know?
I know whenever people say they haven't orgasmed everyone says 'try it on your own and see what turns you on blah blah blah' but seriously masturbating does nothing for me and doesn't turn half as much as when I'm with a guy.
I'm kind of stuck in a rut now and don't know what to do. I think it must be a little annoying for my boyfriend, we have talked about it and he's really considerate and wants to try anything but I feel kind of bad because most girls seem to come pretty easily?! I dunno, I must be weird
A lot of girls never have an orgasm in their life. Don't worry about it, but i can imagine how annoying it must be. Have you tried vibrators?
:eek:
Mr_Wobble
Thats exactly like me.
and that's the same with me too, believe me your not alone.
Mr_Wobble