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what would u do if...
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...say you met some one, you fell for them, fell in love with them etc etc, but then found out they couldnt have children?
would u stay with them, leave them, be anoyed what?
would u stay with them, leave them, be anoyed what?
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I certainly wouldnt be annoyed with them, it isnt their fault, I'd love them unconditionally.
It's really tough because if I were in love with this man and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him, I'd definitely stay with him - but I'd be distraught. I think, depending on what he thought (but I think I'd only fall deeply and permanently in love with someone who wanted the same things as me), we'd try IVF or adoption. I'd hate to just not bring up a family.
I wouldn't get annoyed with them, or I really hope I wouldn't - it's not their fault, and I'd have no right to be annoyed with them.
Kids aren't the be all and end all of life, but to me they're important, so it would hit me hard to know that. Personally, I can't see myself staying with her, I'm far too shallow