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are you bothered about when you lose ur virginity?
ie where you do it (like a random place or a nice cosy bed)
or who you do it with (total random or long term relationship)
I dont think im that bothered about it cos i dont think the first time will last very long.
ie where you do it (like a random place or a nice cosy bed)
or who you do it with (total random or long term relationship)
I dont think im that bothered about it cos i dont think the first time will last very long.
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BUT i would want to shag in a warm bed my first time, not outside in the cold.
But then again i am a lad
I suppose its different for the girls because they have to go through more than us!!!
Ya have to be ready for it, and I think the most important thing is that you have to feel comfortable around eachother, 'cause it won't be as fun otherwise
And I certainly think that it has to happen in a cosy bed! Djeez, it is something new, don't make it more difficult :rolleyes:
lisa :wave:
There should be more girls like you around my area
Lol, i don't care who it is as long as i'm gettin a shag
Thats my attitude.... so when we meeting up?
Just try and make it the right someone. Even a radiator can't make up for it being with the wrong person!
doing that would be so amazing....not that my b/f would ever do anything like that for me.
im always free and always horny
i'm in a relationship now, been 'seeing' each other for about 6 weeks or so now, but onlyu been 'going out' for 2.
he brought up the question of sex last night, i really am not ready. he's my first bf and its not love (yet), plus ideally i want to wait til engagement. i'm a bit old fashioned like that - if he loves me enough to marry me then he can have a shag, but if he doesnt then no chance
my first time will be in a nice cozy bed after that then wherever, but for the first time i wanna be comfy.
*runs and catches a plane to warringition*
wheres that?
im always horny as well, anytime needed
lol, Warrington's near Manchester
i know when i was a virgin at age 14, i couldnt wait to lose my virginity! Wanted to see what it was all about, whether it was as good as the hype, wanted to be the first of my mates and all that. I didnt really care who it was with, but i wanted it to be at my house.
Now i think back and cant understand why i was so keen to shag somebody.
I want it to be in a double-bed on my wedding night.
I'm not really too bothered about candles, or rose-petals or music, but if she wants those things, I won't stop her. I guess that could be quite romantic.
But the wedding night is the important bit to me
Aww thats really sweet . Not many people wait till there married before they first have sex anymore.
I'm waiting, even if no-one else is