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Girls dont like boys girls like cars and money...
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Its an attractive quality...but I dont look for it...what about you?....
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Wouldn't go out with a minger even if he was a millionaire and had an amazing car though!
me neither, although I have friends that do....maybe I should think about my future more...hmm.....nah mingers...no way!
Not even if you had 2 guys to pick from? They were both really fit, 1 was rich with a nice car, and the other was poor and had to get the bus?
if I liked them as boyfs equally id go for the 1 with the car
My last 2 boyfriends haven't driven and it turned out to be quite expensive and time consuming seeing each other.
One lived the other side of town to me, not too bad during the day as it was just a case of getting 2 buses, but in the evening it was a case of getting seperate taxi's, it generally cost me £15 to get home after an evening out with him.
The other lived in a different town, a half hour drive away but I had to get the train then a bus to his which ended up taking an hour!
Even once I've actually passed my test I won't have my own car, it is so much easier being with someone who can drive, I'm not bothered by the money side though.
My ex ( you can tell i've only had a handful as all my references are to the one) dumped her 20-year-old boyfriend who was driving lexus to go out with me but after we broke up she went running to him. So i guess it really is just a bonus.
End.
though if he was cheap, like *never* pays for anything whether it be dinner or deordant for himself, then thats a whole nother story
Definitely an added bonus. Sadly one which my boyfriend doesn't have at the moment. But he's going to be famous so he doesn't need to learn to drive - the chaffeur will take us everywhere. And then we'll have loads of money.
I can wait...
And he couldn't be *too* obsessed with his car. Like in that Shania Twain song - no kissing his guitar goodnight, please! It's bad enough that my boyfriend's obsessed with guitars (well it's not that bad cos like I said, he's going to be rich and famous) but if he were polishing his car and playing mechanics with it every five minutes, I'd rather take the bus.
I should have been born Lady of some manor house, i'd have done very well at being posh totty.
Sorry piss taking aside anyway
It doesn't bother me too much about the money issue, as long as someone has enough that they get by and a car i'm not too bothered. Believe me, i dated a bloke who lost his license and it was a pain in the arse. I was like the local taxi service and it really does grate after a while.
Although a rather fit bloke and money do go well together i would definately not date a minger just for his bank balance. And if a bloke has a sports car then i'm after the car not him. He can just move over and let me drive :cool:
in fact he's probably doing it because i'm not funny
My bf hasn't got much money but still insists on paying for everything. He's got a nice car now but when we started going out he had an old banger.
I've never had a thing about cars coz my dads always driven crappy ones that got us from A to B just fine.
I'm not looking for money in a guy either as i fully intend to earn bucket loads when i finally qualify as a psychologist.:D
If a woman liked me just because of a car or money, I'd rather be single and celibate.
As for the money thing, I'm not saying I want him to pay for everything, but just that it's better if he doesn't scrounge off me!
Mobily what's your opinion of marriage and children? Should both parents be breadwinners or should one stay at home and look after the kids - making them financially dependent on the other?
Yep, I generally agree with that - it's important, I think, to be as equal as possible and not to make one person do all the work or pay for everything.
Well, I'm a very career-minded person and I'd like my wife (when I get married) to work, too. But then this raises questions about the raising of children (which I'd like), because I realise the importance of spending as much time with them as possible and suchlike. So I'm open minded about your question.
It's a difficult question as, like you said, we like to think that the days are 'gone' where men did the work and women stayed at home. I just wondered if you had a particular opinion on it because of your earlier questions.
Open minded is always good
tee hee and I'm really not looking forward to letting my boyfriend drive it
vaguely remember you mentioning it in convo tell us again if you like;)
ohhh alright then gorgeous renault clio 1.2 16v hologram grey gets delivered on the 26th of June! va va voom
Oooooh bet ya cant wait, you lucky lucky girl:p
My ex was totally obsessed by his car! Drove me mad! I want a guy with a car, but not one who would prefer a relationship with his car than with another human being :yeees:
Yea its an added bonus as everyone says but its not really about what he has... But then i can say that cause i can drive (i'm nearing the end of tedious lessons...woohoo) and have a shiny brand new peugeot 206 sitting outside... (had to get that in there somewhere!)
Its nice to be equal though, which is why it'd be nice if he could drive, you know, the whole taking it in turns thing... lol and as for paying for things, i'm not a girl who can just let ma bloke pay for everything. It makes me feel really awkward and so i like to pay my way every once in a while!
Agreed, I dont wanna drive everywhere all the time! And I have a brand new 206 aswell
As said before it's just an added bonus if they do have a car and money. I've just found out that they guy who I fancy is not only very fit, but he also has a very nice new car and a huge house with a swimming pool and jacuzzi! Like I said before, added bonus
I'm going to forget how to drive soon :rolleyes: :mad:
Gotta agree with Mobily's Ghost on this one. If a girl liked me just for my car (very unlikely by the way, unless she was into beat up old convertibles) then she'd have to be shallow as a paddling pool...
I reckon it also demonstrates a big insecurity thing going on and a lack of adventure and originality.. Shall I go on?
:eek2:
"Step out the front door like a ghost into the fog where no one notices the contrast of white on white.
And in between the moon and you the angels get a better view of the crumbling difference between wrong and right.
I walk in the air between the rain through myself and back again
Where? I don't know"