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Properly Scared
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basically i was at a party last night and had sex with this girl. I was wearin a condom and came in it, but i carried on thrusting away. As we changed positions i noticed 2 mins later that the condom had come off and was inside her. so i took it out and told her that we should stop. She wasnt too pleased. lol 20 mins later i hear that she has had unprotected sex with one of my mates. Now we are both shittin it bout gettin her pregnant. What are the odds of her gettin pregnant by me!?
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sorry i just had visions of a guy knobbing a grill there.....
i soooo need to grow up
Instead of shittin it, Slap yourself round your head for being stupid and perhaps go see a GUM clinic (who knows where else this girls been). Then talk to this promiscuous little creature and tell her to make sure she isn’t up the duff and to get herself checked out at a GUM clinic.
And next time, Try and be a bit more careful.
And pray that this girl isn’t pregnant:p
If she is, you and your mate flip a coin to see who becomes the dad:p
:eek: :eek: She sounds like a right hooer!! She do you & your mate on the same night? Eeeew!
I'm guessing as she's this, um, *busy* that she'd take the pill too to be doubly sure. Have you asked her if she was on the pill?
Although, if she wasn't particularly bothered that the condom came off, it could be that she's on the pill, so you should find out. Either that or she's just stupid. (Sorry, a little harsh).
Sounds like there's more risk that your mate would have got her pregnant, if either of you, as he wasn't wearing a condom at all. If the condom only came off as you pulled out of her, and didn't spill everywhere, then there's a chance that it wouldn't have gone inside her. However, this is the reason why they tell you on the leaflet inside condom boxes to withdraw 'soon after ejaculation' and hold the condom on until you've pulled out. Once a guy's come, his penis usually goes flaccid quickly, making condoms fall off easily.
And yes if she's having unprotected sex with multiple partners on a regular basis, you and your mate might want to go get tested at the GUM clinic.
Like everyone has said ask her to take the morning after pill - if she refuses then you'll just have to wait. There are DNA tests that can be done to determine who the father is and perhaps having a baby or a termination will be the wake up call for this girls self esteem?
and finally - as i'm sure you have now realised theres a lot to be said for having sex with people you love and trust!
Not sure when a woman should take the test though.
good luck anyway.
Get her very drunk.
Hm i thought i found everythin funny!? Obviously not!
I intend to buy her one and ask her to use it
And I agree with byny, people calling her a whore doesn't help anyone.
LSS
lol thats a little harsh harmless...
I call tails :P
Like byny says, it takes 2 to tango, we all make mistakes especially when we have been drinking and how do we know that these guys were not taking advantage of the girl? Not saying that they WERE but just don't pre-judge a situation when we only have one side of the story.
You can buy a pregnancy test for £4 in Bodycare or about £8 in superdrug/boots. In the chemists testing is about £4 but less discrete, or you can go to the Brook or your doctor which is free. You need to wait until the period is due or else there may not be enough hormones to detect any possible pregnancy.
MAP is available from the brook, selected chemists, doctors etc, can be taken up to 72 hours after sex.
IUD (the coil) can be used up to 5 days after sex to prevent pregnancy but is more complicated.
You sound more responsible than a lot of guys, just be careful ok?