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did i fail?
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Um well my girlfriend had to goto the florry unit to day to get the monring after pill, after a slit tearing problem (pun intended)
i couldnt go with her, and she needed me he had to sit for an hour on her own and see sum stuck up shit head nurse who sed she didnt need it after all, but i coulndt be there!
did i fail her?
i couldnt go with her, and she needed me he had to sit for an hour on her own and see sum stuck up shit head nurse who sed she didnt need it after all, but i coulndt be there!
did i fail her?
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if it was an honest reason then im sure she will be fine about it. i wouldnt worry! x
u didnt fail me. i was upset.. of course i was upset but the important thing is that u cycled all the way to my skool to make sure i was ok and then u let me lean on ur shoulder and cry and u wiped my tears. u dont need to feel guilty anymore. its over now. i went and it was horrible but its over now and thats all there is too it. i love u and u didnt fail me
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you can't help it if you have other stuff to do.
the fact that you feel bad for not being able to go says it all...
this may not seem like the right time to ask so im sorry in advance if my question piss's you off.
but if the comdom split on you, why did the nurse tell her she didnt need the MAP? isnt it better to be safe than sorry?
wish my ex boyf had even acted remotely like you when i had been through it. i think his words were 'has it been sorted?' and that was it. dont let it bother you, shes said how she feels. end of. get back to the nice part of relationshiping!
You two are so sweet.
You quite obviously did not fail her.
thank the lord!
well i did fail her today i was supposed to wait with my phone to find out what the result was cause she wanted to do it with a friend, well i kinda did a chicken run to the shops to get nicotine and forget to go home where i had left my phone!
so ifailed today!
im jstu so releaved tht she isnt pregnant!