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how real could it have been?
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i thought that i was getting over my ex of about 4 months. lately i seem to keep thinking about her. kind of bugs me since i can't seem to help it.
she told me that she loved me (when we were together), but how serious could she have been when the next week she dumped me? 3 weeks later she had a new guy.
thoughts on this would be appreciated. thanks.
she told me that she loved me (when we were together), but how serious could she have been when the next week she dumped me? 3 weeks later she had a new guy.
thoughts on this would be appreciated. thanks.
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You're probably just going through that period a while after you break up with someone when you start thinking about them again. It happens.
Love's confusing. Life's confusing. I wouldn't worry about it. I've had a shitty week myself. I was clearing a load of stuff up, and found an envelope I'd put all the letters, and cards, from one of my ex'es in. I couldn't help but read them, and they brought tears to my eyes. It brought back many happy times, then all the bad feelings about the breakup, and the way it all went wrong, and her cheating on me. I'm just waffling now, and gone right off the topic. But I suppose the thing I'm trying to get at is - remember the good times, try not to think of the whys, etc, and move on.
I've still kept those letters though, sealed in a large envelope, and still have photos of her, and us, in a box somewhere. But they're in the past now.
Mr_Wobble
i suspect she may be on the rebound...
I had a bit of an "ex crisis" this week after, like Mr Wobble, finding all my old letters, emails etc, and stupidly reading them. One of them was from 9 days before he broke up with me, and it was such a gorgeous email, all about how nothing else in the world mattered and that although he would be unhappy coming back to school it would be okay because he was near me...and then not long after he ended it all.
It's all very confusing...who knows if they really meant it or not, but I like to believe that they did. I suppose feelings change though, and we deserve better than that.