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Do any of u regret......
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hey i was just wondering do any of u regret how u lost ur virginity?? i do lol i lost it in a one night stand to a lad who lives down the street and now we dont even talk! lol ahh well.
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I "waited" until I was 19. I say "waited", to be honest the opportunity never really arose
Nope, I lost my virginity to a girl I really loved which I suppose I'm pleased about.
Now we've broken up and and I'm gutted about things, I'm glad I waited and have no regrets at all. However if I had done it earlier with a random girl maybe I would have had more experience and performed better with the girl I really loved ( if that makes sense?)
It was the first (only) time i'd met him, we had nothing in common, it was freezing cold and it just took ageeeees. Never seen him again!
Nope, I lost mine to a guy who I ended up being with for a year & although we split up almost a year ago now & don't really talk much anymore I really cared about him at the time & he cared about me. I wouldn't change who I lost it to.
You know, you should actually sound like you regret it, rather than ending it with "ah well" and sprinkling your post with "lol"s. It sounds more like you don't give a shit.
I think the first time you sleep with someone, (I,E, a partner in a relationship) should be treated as a virginity of sorts you both dont know what you each like and in a way you will be inxeperianced, granted this isnt agreat analogy but in my experience this attitude can make the first intermacy in a relationship something special,
Thats what happened with me.
Nope i loved it !!!
Now, THAT hurt.
Nah, um, lost it to a 16 year old girl in a train station when i was 12. She was very nice though. Although i never saw her again. I dunno.
I dont regret much atall, even if its a bad experience i dont regret it, it all becomes a part of me and if i regret myself then its a downward spyral from there.
I lost it to my first real serious gf when I was 17 in a nice hotel room.Stayed with her the best part of a year afterwards.
But, I never told her she was first- she still doesn't know.
Dont know why I never told her- guess I wanted to act experienced or something...
sorry, shouldn't generalise.
Slinky
Thanks babes
And it was great
not proud at all really, drunken nite, drunken friend, drunken mistake! end of!