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worst break-up.... EVER!
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ok so on sunday night i was lying in bed when my phone beeps twice because i've got two text messages right after each other. it was my girlfriend of two months who i was crazy about telling me i was dumped! :mad:
she waited til i'd given her the rather expensive perfume for christmas, couldn't even say it to my face or at the very least over the phone and to top it all really fucked up my christmas! :mad: :mad:
does anyone have any worse break up stories that highlight my melodramatic tendencies? sorry to rant, but it was cold!
she waited til i'd given her the rather expensive perfume for christmas, couldn't even say it to my face or at the very least over the phone and to top it all really fucked up my christmas! :mad: :mad:
does anyone have any worse break up stories that highlight my melodramatic tendencies? sorry to rant, but it was cold!
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Ok not as bad a breakup as a violent, or argument breakup but still has tore me apart, and buggered my life up.:(
I had a BF when I was 15 who I was totally into, rather than tell me it was over, he decided to simply snog someone in front of my face, the bastard.
Sometime's it takes horrible things like that to realise how much you love someone. That's what happened when me & my boyf split up after he did something he shouldn't have. Made him realise what an idiot he'd been
once : i thought he took me for granted and i nagged as he didn't appreciate me. through a text, and he was nasty, callin me a drama queen, bitch, blah blah. said he had cheated on me when he hadn't just to annoy me cause i was on a rebound and he couldn't handle it, and it was just plain awkward as FUCK when we went out with all our friends.
twice : he put himself before me, i.e phoning taxis for him before me, when we went out, he never came out to see me cause he always was goin out with his mates. text, and phone call, i phoned him. once again nasty, sent me fake text messages on his mates' phone pretending to be soem guy i hooked up with. jealousy took him over when he found out i was on a rebound
thrice : he didn't spend any money on me, nor give me any xxx, wasn't putting anything into what we had. i didn't want to break up with him, and he ignored me etc and i panicked, and wanted him back cause i missed him.
four : ugliest ever. caused arguements with my mum and dad, my mum punched my dad cause i ducked out the way, all because of paul. my mum sent him an email saying stay away from me, and she phoned him too, saying stay away. we talk..rarely, and i miss him. but i'm not meant to.
remember i'm 19. yes, pathetic i know to have my mum do all that, but urgh. you dunno her capability. she has a temper of 578349758903782905347892057834920 lions on a rampage.
i miss paul, and i didn't appreciate him. it was an equal effort in the end, we both have drifted away from each other, but i like to reminice the good times, cause that's what past relationships are about. i know i'll find someone who'll be almost my equal, but when it happens i dunno, but i like to think it'll happen when least expected, but until then, it's best to just have fun, live young and do what you can only do this age, and not when you're all old and nassy.
Bizzarely, 15 months on it's STILL happening. Someone told me she's got all my old love letters I gave her, under her pillow every night. And a whole load of complicated shite to go with it.
:crying:
one day he rang me saying how much he liked me and wanted to see me... then after that phone call i didn't here from him for a week i text him and rang him but no reply,
so my mate who had been going out with his best mate (but he dumped her the week before) rang him to see what was going on and he just said 'what about er' (meaning me like i'm worthless :rolleyes: ) she told me he said he would ring me in an hour but nope no phone call what a suprise :mad:
then the next day after having a really nice out with some mates i recieved a text message saying 'Sorry ***** doesn't want to be with you anymore' and if it wasn't bad enough being dumped by text but he couldn't even send the bloody text himself!!
then his best mate had the cheek to ask if i wanted to go out with him sometime :eek: well i certainly told him where to go
well looks like he cursed me because ive had bad luck with men since oh well i'm only 16 got plenty of time to find 'the one' :rolleyes:
it was the first time i'd ever been dumped so it hit me pretty bad but i had a kind of delayed reaction and it only sank in on monday night. really put me in the christmas spirit...
bastards ay?
It was a sunday (go figure) and I hadn't school the next day, which helped. I rented a movie, and called him up wanting to know if he'd come over, snuggle up, and watch this movie with me.
No, he couldn't, he was spending the day with his EX-girlfriend, and then had to go to band practice. That's alright with me. I was alright friends with his Ex, and I knew nothing would happen (even though, after they broke up *three months before we started dating* they still fooled around with each other up until the day before he asked me out)
So, I finished watching the movie ALONE, and I went upstairs to check my messages and go to bed.
a little message pops up on AOL IM at about 1:30am, with "we need to talk".
alright, at this point, im kinda confused, because he's never said that before, but im reading. He starts talking. "so, you've noticed I've been different lately, kinda apathetic". at this point, im pacing around the room, so I know exactly whats happening.
Near 4am, the break up is near-finalized, and we're over. But, he was to come by my place that tuesday to talk it out face to face, and get his things back. But he doesn't. Instead he hides away, ignores me, and goes out with his ex instead.
Ever since he's been nice to me one second, been an absolute jerk the next, and then hangs me out to dry. not to mention like the near next day we broke up, he was back to fooling around with his ex. and to this day im suspicious of what went on the day he broke up with me, and had spent the day with her.
I guess thats why I'm still bitter eight months later. Break ups aren't supposed to be this controversal... let alone if its your FIRST breakup. It's like, Dawson's Creek on crack.
ARE YOU ACTUALLY ME?? SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME, BUT EXCHANGE PERFUME WITH FANCY NECKLACE, ITS CUS SHES A MENTALIST DUE TO HER AGE, WITHOUT BEIN BIG HEADED I THINK SHE'LL REGRET IT, AND U NEVER FORGET YOUR FIRST DO YOU? HEHE
SO I WENT OUT NEW YEARS EVE AND GOT ANOTHER GIRLS PHONE NO. WOO
COULD HAVE BEEN WORSE, DID YOURS HAVE A REASON, MINE DIDN'T. LOL