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So come on then boys and girls, if you saw someone of the oppisite sex how would you try and pull them etc? Could be at a club or in the shops etc??
My way would be to be myself and start trying to talk or comment on something you know they will reply too. Sometimes work! lol
My way would be to be myself and start trying to talk or comment on something you know they will reply too. Sometimes work! lol
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this tends to draw the girls attention my way but thats how far as the "pulling" goes.
It's all in the eyes.
Refering to Brians answer!
If say I was walking down a road etc and walked past a girl and she smiled at me and I smiled at her, what would you as a girl want me to do about it? Onbviously it makes a difference whether you fancy them or not.
1) would you just carry on walking and think he was nice?
2) want me to stop and make conversation with you? Maybe try and get your number etc?
Basically what I'm asking is would you like to be chatted up just walking along the street???
Yeah, it'd be nice to know. Thing is, what would ya say to someone you just eyed up in the street ??
I'd be so damn embarrased...
Come on girls, replie will YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!
But of course it does depend how sexy the guy was...some I just wouldn't be able to resist.
I always stop and chat to the sexy guys who try it, but none have ever got anywhere.
Personally I don't do the chating up, wherever I am. I just wait for guys to come up to me. Maybe the odd smile, just let them notice me eyeing them up but more often than not I don't even do that, just carry on having a laugh with my mates and well the way we are tends to attract the guys anyway;)
I imagine its way easier for a women to do this aswell- as most men wont the offer!
hey I replied.
I think you guys see a girl who chats you up as easy and too forward anyways. Or at least thats what most of the guys who I've asked about it have said.
So come on girls, what you waiting for??
LOL
Ah well I know strange guys then. :rolleyes: I already knew that though
With girsl you find this out about an hour later!
It depends more on your approach in chatting to them- you say easy like a bad thing, its a girl who knows what she wants and both sides are happy- two winners no losers?
I never know where I stand chatting up girls and thats why I dont do it more often-
I know what I want and I always get itthough without chatting guys up. If I see a guy who I like then i'll always get him, and if a guy tries it that I don't like I won't lead him on...well unless I'm very drunk and then I'm bad, but hey ho.
I dunno, I think guys like doing the chasing though, and a girl who does that spoils their fun. Or so all my mates say:)