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What makes a bloke call?
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If I liked a girl, I'd make the effort. I'm guessing most blokes are like that. Unless they find someone better. Sad but true.
Sorry, that wasn't much help
That's what I keep telling myself
Don't worry, give it time
Before you all shout, don't knock it till you've tried it.
I don't think chasing blokes works. They don't like it. It makes them run, if not to start with (cos they're flattered to start with) they will in the end. And if they chase you you're not gonna get hurt/ feel like shit if they turn round & tell you where to go.
As for the why he hasn't called, he might be busy or trying to not look desperate! Give it time. And if he doesn't call who the hell does he think he is! - in that case forget him & don't bother till someone who realises how great you are comes along & asks you for your number.
Bad reasons:
Sex
Lonely
Drunk
Got nothing better to do, may as well try get his leg over.
Good reasons:
He likes you
But all reasons more or less lead to sex anyway, so you wont know what he want's until he has got it.
Not sure why he hasn’t called you, is he perhaps shy?
He may want you to make the first move (You may as well, why wait for a bloke to do it eh!)
Call him a few times and if you get the run around leave it and move on. (Give him a chance or two tho!)
But Maybe after the affects of alcohol have worn off, he realises he hasn’t actually got any bottle!
I'm sooooo shy around girls, they usually have to offer it. I've been in the situation when a me and a girl are talking away, it comes to the end of the night and I just say bye, even though I really wanted her number! But then that's just me and my shyness
I do, I do But again, it's because I'm so shy
You're right though, most blokes are like that.
Lol, keep telling ya self-that kitty!;)
Maybe it’s been a busy month for him, I wouldn’t worry just yet!
*Wonders if blokes are allowed to wank in that month*??
Lol, But why?
Sorry but that's crap. If you're interested you should phone him. Life's too short to be playing stupid games over waiting x amount of days to call someone. You wanna go out with him, you call him. Personally if a girl expected me to do all the calling our relationship wouldn't last long.
Hmm, maybe you need someone else. Maybe he hasn't called because he found the last convo so akward.
And Pussykatty, Mist's right - you've got a phone, so pick it up and use it