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Jelousy takes over my life!
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ok.. this is gonna sound really stupid compared to other people's problems on ere, but its starting to affect my life and im serioulsy starting to wonder if i need help!
Whenever i am introduced to a girl who is preetier than me, i get so jelous that i don't even want to make freinds with her incase my boyfriend (who has never cheated on me!) will drool over her and not me when we are out.
Ive hardly got any friends anymore, i hate myself for feeling this way, but i can't help it! Im ALWAYS accusing my boyfriend of checking other girls out or chatting them up, even though deep down i know he wouldn't. Or even when im just out and about im scared to be compared by other guys on my looks.
Ive tried explaining to him what's going on in my stupid head, but he just doesn't get it and just says i don't trust him. Fact is, im just jelous of the compeition < so to speak!
Any adivce to what i can do to over come this problem? please help
Whenever i am introduced to a girl who is preetier than me, i get so jelous that i don't even want to make freinds with her incase my boyfriend (who has never cheated on me!) will drool over her and not me when we are out.
Ive hardly got any friends anymore, i hate myself for feeling this way, but i can't help it! Im ALWAYS accusing my boyfriend of checking other girls out or chatting them up, even though deep down i know he wouldn't. Or even when im just out and about im scared to be compared by other guys on my looks.
Ive tried explaining to him what's going on in my stupid head, but he just doesn't get it and just says i don't trust him. Fact is, im just jelous of the compeition < so to speak!
Any adivce to what i can do to over come this problem? please help
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and thats just the short version!!!!!!!
u get the jist? i torture myself, i put myself in these positions where im dead vulnerable, thinking if he slept with her and came back to me it meant he loved me, then i realised i was wrong, things will get sorted out but that would only satisfy me until the next time.....
Try not to keep accusing your boyfriend of things, I know it will be hard but eventually if you do it all the time he will get really fed up.
Sorry cant be of much more help