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A question for blokes about respect
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But if I’ve d discussed her sexual past before we slept together and I think she has been honest with my I have no problem sleeping with her first date!
But yeah my rule would be if I didn’t know her and met her someplace and then shagged her I would consider her easy (It wouldn’t stop me trying to shag her) but I wouldn’t then be able to have a relationship with her.
But I have a habit of breaking my own rules.
I guess it also depends on the person:) and the shag!
Not 100% sure why it would just really put me off,
" how many blokes has this girl been with"!
that sort of thought would enter my head :eek2:
Are you talking from some form of expirence??
What happened, what are your thoughts??
Its very rare to find a girl that wont shag you after the first couple of drinks round here
From my point of view OF COURSE THEY ARE,and its sooooo boring to just think that only women are easy in the same circumstances.
You men pleaseeeeeee do me a favor and grow up!!!!!!!!
But..I dont know about the question. It would depend on the girl, on the situation. The first time my fiance (who was then a friend) stayed at mine we shagged, so I dont think it puts me off. It would depend on the girl, really.
Yep, Very double standard! But what you have to ask your self is, if you were her bf could you trust her out on her own with mates!
I think personally It would be hard to trust her!
1. She would have to be fine;)
2. Clean
3. Not pissed out of her brian
4. Not jail bait:rolleyes:
5. Doing it just for fun
She would have to do something amasing to make me think she might be Relationship material other wise i would think she was easy:rolleyes:
I slept with my current b/friend after 2 dates and we're still together..
I think it depends on the people myself. I am no slut, just got carried away that's all.
Girls instigate sex just as much.
You make your bed (or, in this case, mess it up), you gotta lie in it. Would you see a guy who would lay you after an hour of kissing as serious relationship material?
We will try and help:)
Firstly, just because a girl sleeps with you on a first date does not mean she is easy. Just as you may be gagging to sleep with her, why should she not feel the same about you? What's the difference? Guys and girls both have sex drives and both have needs.
Just as a guy may not want a relationship with a girl that consistently sleeps around, neither would a girl want to want a relationship with a guy like that. But to sum her up as "easy" just because she sleeps with you on a first date is hypocritical. Like with everyone, give the girl a chance before pidgeon-holing her with some description which is unfair, outdated and very, very SEXIST!
It's not very fair that girls get called easy if they go with alot of guys but then when they do it thats fine and they brag about it to their mates!
It angers me :mad:
Ah well, just a simple fact of life I guess
Or do I remember that you are gay? Why are all the good ones?
I'm not gay
In answer to your question it depends if she always did it then no i wouldn't but you partake in the sex aswell so it makes you as good relationship material as them. But i couldn't see my self doing that.
If you like the person and get on then why not, all relationships develop at different paces.
If they did that there wouldn't be many men left!!!!
You also dont have to actually go through with it to know whether a girl will sleep with you. I said in my first post that 'if a girl was willing".
I dont sleep with girls on the first date any more, even if they are willing.
I am still in the process of kicking myself for turning down sex, but when I think about it properly it was the right thing to do.
Jonbob