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I'm lonley.....
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G'day all. I'm male and 21 and have no girlfriend. Trouble is if I fancy a girl I always think that she don't fancy me because she's to pretty or somthing. I'm to shy...like I have zero confidence talking the women, never had sex or oral, not even got a clue what to do! I need to come out of my shell a bit. I've never said this to anyone before because I'm to embarrist (SP I know), all my mates have had sex and got girls but not me I'm a sad lil 'ol dude at the mo.
Piss taker need not aply! :rolleyes:
Piss taker need not aply! :rolleyes:
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You need to go places and talk to people just talk to anyone and eventuly you will find someone:)
Just be carefull take your time but above all have a laugh:D
Im in a sinmilar posistion to yourself. Im 20 and have no girlfriend. I posted here a while ago because i met a girl, but i thought theres noway this girl could like me. We were best friends until Sunday night i had a little too much to drink and i told her how i felt. I dont know what i was expecting, i knew she didnt feel the same but deep down i still had the hope she did. Anyways it kinda surprised her and she never really said anything, just 'oh. im sorry. i didnt want it to come to this.' This is a nice way of saying ' i dont feel the same'. Anyways things now are awkward between us which is a shame because we were so close before.
Anyways, i have absolutely no confidence in myself. I can talk to girls but find myself thinking they are just being nice to me and im not good enough for them. Im recovering from depression, i still have bad days, but now ive got a sort of 'dont give a shit' attitude. Take life as it comes. Im getting over this girl now, its hard but i need to do it to move on. I kno its hard and lonely, but you have to think that some day you will meet that girl and you will b happy. I agree with HunnyPot, its easier to form a relationship with a girl you know rather than one youve just met. Go out more, im sure youve got plenty of friends who like to drink, try and hang around with girls and if you have any close girl friends ask them if they'd like to come out with you. Its worth it mate. Im dealing with rejection right now, its just one of lifes paths.
Try and gain some confidence pal, your still young and things will come good. And your not alone, there are plenty of people in your situation.
Good Luck with things.