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Is This Wrong???
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I want to lose my virginity but the thing is i dont want a relationship (well im pretty sure I don't want one) But I want to lose it to some one who is not a total mingah but I want to know is that wrong???
I mean I think I am getting sexually frustrated and deprived so I need a bit of action maybe not sex but it would be nice.
So what do you think is it wrong or not?
Thanks
I mean I think I am getting sexually frustrated and deprived so I need a bit of action maybe not sex but it would be nice.
So what do you think is it wrong or not?
Thanks
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To be honest, if you only want a one-night stand it's not that difficult (as long as you're prepared to put all the hard work in, or possibly pay for it) but truly fufilling sex can usually only be found within a relationship.
You aren't paying enough!
So it's part of the "extra services" they offer??
I don't think that is too big an age gap! If he wanted you in the first place (to sleep with) then it certainnly isn't too big an age gap for a relationship.
one question, why??! why would you want to have sex with someone your not sexually attracted too??
Tra la la.
Doh! that will teach me to post when im ill, lol
I think you need to read more carefully! Only pointing it out....
Aw, I think that we can let you off then. Hope you feel better soon.
I know
To be honest I think hes just using age as an excuse and that really he just thought i wasnt experienced enough or whatever. Oh well, plenty more fish in the sea.............
surely you have a hand of your own?? i mean, if you don't mind not getting full sex then you can sort yourself out can't u? does it make a difference whether it's u or some1 else jerking you off or whatever? (soz - assuming ur a guy here)
that's actually a serious question - does it make a difference? i know it does 4 me but that's just coz i'm crap. be interested to c what people think...
sorry if i'm not making much sense, i'm a bit poorly
I know for me, for example, I am attracted to girls alot younger me (not wanting to sound sick) because mentally im still not where my body tells me i should be
So yeah, no point to this post really cept to say that the gap between 23 and 17 is a pathetic excuse when us 30 something aged guys out there would kill to have a younger girlfriend if it wasnt so scandalous to society.