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I’m safe but I cannot keep going on anymore there’s so much going through my head and I just want some help to move on and let go ready
really
Thanks for sharing this @LolaPumpkin13 it sounds like a lot is going on, and letting go can be incredibly difficult and doesn't happen overnight. You're strong for sharing this, and for working at this so hard for so long. You deserve to feel some peace. Can I ask, what do you do to help keep yourself safe when things feel too overwhelming? This could be anything that distracts you or brings you some peace?
I just watch TikToks or cook something or just watch a film
it is just tiring all of it
My world feels quiet still I’m just tired off missing him when it isn’t the same for him
Watching TikToks, cooking and watching films sound like good ways to help you relax when things get too much and too loud, you're strong for using those to help you cope with everything @LolaPumpkin13. How are you feeling today I wonder? And did you manage to do something to distract yourself yesterday?
I have been arguing with my ex which I didn’t stray he just knows how to start me off honestly I’m done
Hey @LolaPumpkin13 it sounds like this argument your ex made you feel frustrated which is understandable, arguments are never easy but I'm sure having this argument with your ex brought up a lot of emotions, do you want to share more about how this made you feel?
he doesn’t care how I feel which is very upsetting
honestly we said some very hurtful things which is hard because it was completely different then
Hey @LolaPumpkin13 that must have been really hard, hearing and saying things to eachother that you know are hurtful. Feeling like this person dosn't care about you must be upsetting. If you don't mind me asking, where was this argument left? Do you feel like it got less heated towards the end or do you see there being another argument?
it was on insta and because he knows how to start me off then I start on him. He has been completely like the opposite he has been when we was together
and now he doesn’t like it after i told him he made me suicidal but it wasn’t ok to feel me the way i did because apparently i made him suicidal