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Hey @Sabah , I dont think we spoke before but thank you for your comment. That's right yh. I really appreciate everything you said thank you again.
Wanting to keep your feelings to yourself because you don’t want to cause worry or an argument is so natural, but it doesn’t make your emotions any less real or important. It is okay to give yourself permission to feel it fully, even if the world around you is busy or overwhelming. You’ve been holding a lot, and it’s exhausting to try to keep it all inside, especially when you’re around family and need to stay composed.
You deserve the same care and compassion that you give to others. It’s okay to let yourself take up space with your feelings, l and to give yourself the kindness that your heart truly needs. You are doing the best you can, and it’s more than enough.
It’s understandable that thinking about working more hours in the future worries you. Feeling drained now makes it scary to imagine it getting harder, and it’s okay to feel that. It doesn’t mean you can’t handle it , it just means you’re listening to yourself and noticing your limits, which is such a caring and important thing to do.
So many people feel the same way about not knowing where you want to be in life, even if they don’t always show it on the surface. You’re currently figuring things out, learning more about who you are, and what really matters to you. Life rarely follows a straight path, and it’s perfectly natural to feel unsure about your next steps. It’s okay to take your time and explore or change direction. You don’t need to have all the answers right now, or even soon. Being unsure about where you want to go is part of the process, not a sign that you’re failing. You’re giving yourself the gift of awareness, self-compassion and honesty which is very valuable.
You are allowed to need breaks. You are allowed to have days that feel like a struggle. You are allowed to be exactly where you are, with all your feelings, without judgment. You are stronger than you often give yourself credit for.
You've always said the right thing here to me @Ech0 , you're an amazing supporter and put so much effort into your replies, you should be so proud of yourself ❤️
Thank you as always @Ech0
I completely understand how it feels to worry about those things, I feel the same way because of my social anxiety, and it can be incredibly tough. But I want to reassure you that you're one of the most supportive people I've ever come across and the effort and thoughtfulness you put into your responses is incredible. I must admit that I sometimes wondered if you were using AI to come up with them, that's how good they are. (I meant that in a good way - I know you're a genuine person)
It's okay to cry and your feelings are all so valid, but just know that you're such a kind, thoughtful person and we would never judge you
Thank you both for such kind and thoughtful words, they mean so much. I am glad to hear others can relate to me and I hope you are doing well. It is very touching to hear you appreciate me and feel supported by me and making a positive difference is something I value greatly so I am very grateful for your understanding and for this community.
And Nemuritai, I understand social anxiety can be really difficult. It isn’t easy to navigate situations when your mind is overthinking or worrying. We are more than willing to lend an ear if you need and your feelings are completely valid and understandable
I have realised sometimes I sound a bit too formal haha, so I think from now on I will try and work on that because I thought I had to be formal at the beginning when I joined and stuck with being formal even though I now know I don’t have to be.
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hey @eylah , how are you?
@so_very_tired that sounds difficult to be around. How are you handling it atm?
I'm sorry you have to witness parents arguing @so_very_tired, I know it can be tough. I'm here for you if you need to talk or anything
Aw I see - still, I do hope things quiet down soon and you can get some peace later. I've got some reading practice to get done tonight, but I appreciate the offer and I'd be happy to chat another time
It is completely understandable that this job doesn’t feel right for you. Wanting something more fulfilling that you enjoy isn’t unrealistic at all. Your job may help to build resilience and a strong work ethic, which are the kinds of qualities that make future opportunities easier to reach. Every small step you take now: learning, observing, figuring out what you like or don’t like is part of moving to the job you envision.
I am really sorry to hear everyone is arguing with you, that sounds very exhausting and frustrating. You deserve to be heard without feeling on edge and to exist in a space where you aren’t constantly under pressure or criticism. Your feelings are completely valid and is more than okay to step back when you need a break.
It’s okay to feel frustrated or overwhelmed, and it’s okay to dream of something better while you’re in this stage. Thinking about your next steps already means you’re moving in that direction and you don’t have to figure it all out right now. You have got this.
@Ech0 Thank you, that really means a lot to me. I appreciate you understanding how hard this feels and for reminding me that I’ve still made progress, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. Your support and reassurance genuinely help, so thank you.
Hey, good to see you - I'm doing okay
won’t be able to see this cuteness anymore. he was my comfort animal. he was there for me whenever i felt sad. will miss him forever.