Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 05.01.26

Redemption

Sabah wrote: »

@Redemption that does sound exhausting. Even if the hours are few, if it’s a job that you don’t find rewarding, or one that you don’t particularly enjoy, it’s completely understandable that it takes it out of you by the end of the day. Have I understood that correctly?

It’s normal to not know what you want to be in life - knowing this doesn’t make it feel any less overwhelming but we are all here for you as you figure out what you want / need. And that absolutely isn’t something you have to decide overnight, you have time.

Hey @Sabah , I dont think we spoke before but thank you for your comment. That's right yh. I really appreciate everything you said thank you again.

Ech0

@Lottie5433 I’m really sorry you’re feeling so weighed down tonight and it’s sounds so difficult hard when you feel like you can’t share with someone close to you.

Wanting to keep your feelings to yourself because you don’t want to cause worry or an argument is so natural, but it doesn’t make your emotions any less real or important. It is okay to give yourself permission to feel it fully, even if the world around you is busy or overwhelming. You’ve been holding a lot, and it’s exhausting to try to keep it all inside, especially when you’re around family and need to stay composed.

You deserve the same care and compassion that you give to others. It’s okay to let yourself take up space with your feelings, l and to give yourself the kindness that your heart truly needs. You are doing the best you can, and it’s more than enough.

Ech0

@eylah That is wonderful to hear, I am very glad you still get to see Teddy and I am sure Teddy can’t wait to see you too.

Ech0

@Redemption I can really hear how much you’re carrying right now, and honestly, it makes total sense that you’re feeling drained and unmotivated. Starting a new routine, especially with early hours, a commute and a relentless schedule is exhausting even if the shifts are short. It is okay to feel conflicted. Wanting this job and still feeling unmotivated or mentally worn down at times doesn’t make you ungrateful but instead it shows how much you care about doing a good job and about your life. Feeling tired, worried, or overwhelmed doesn’t take away from your capability or your desire to do well. It doesn’t erase all the effort you’re putting in or the progress you’re making.

It’s understandable that thinking about working more hours in the future worries you. Feeling drained now makes it scary to imagine it getting harder, and it’s okay to feel that. It doesn’t mean you can’t handle it , it just means you’re listening to yourself and noticing your limits, which is such a caring and important thing to do.

So many people feel the same way about not knowing where you want to be in life, even if they don’t always show it on the surface. You’re currently figuring things out, learning more about who you are, and what really matters to you. Life rarely follows a straight path, and it’s perfectly natural to feel unsure about your next steps. It’s okay to take your time and explore or change direction. You don’t need to have all the answers right now, or even soon. Being unsure about where you want to go is part of the process, not a sign that you’re failing. You’re giving yourself the gift of awareness, self-compassion and honesty which is very valuable.

You are allowed to need breaks. You are allowed to have days that feel like a struggle. You are allowed to be exactly where you are, with all your feelings, without judgment. You are stronger than you often give yourself credit for.

Ech0

I really care about the people around me, so sometimes I end up overthinking things. I worry about how I come across or if I’ve said the right thing, especially in social situations. I’m still figuring out how to navigate it and today I just ended up crying because of it because it feels like I’m going backwards sometimes despite my efforts.

Redemption

Ech0 wrote: »

I really care about the people around me, so sometimes I end up overthinking things. I worry about how I come across or if I’ve said the right thing, especially in social situations. I’m still figuring out how to navigate it and today I just ended up crying because of it because it feels like I’m going backwards sometimes despite my efforts.

You've always said the right thing here to me @Ech0 , you're an amazing supporter and put so much effort into your replies, you should be so proud of yourself ❤️

Redemption

Im really struggling with this, im not sure what to do

Redemption

I feel like crying most if not all days on the way to work, its just I dont know how long I'll be in this job for, if I'll get stuck or even if I get sacked. I guess I have made some progress because this time last year I was having to volunteer which I never wanted to do anyway but was encouraged and it didn't help. Tbh this job is definitely not what I wanted to do either, I was looking at other entry level jobs but I feel like this is the lowest of all low. I know 1 day Id like to get out of the 9 to 5 or have some sort of thing I'm passionate about on the side to make money but I want to be realistic too. Its just tough.

Redemption

Ech0 wrote: »

@Redemption I can really hear how much you’re carrying right now, and honestly, it makes total sense that you’re feeling drained and unmotivated. Starting a new routine, especially with early hours, a commute and a relentless schedule is exhausting even if the shifts are short. It is okay to feel conflicted. Wanting this job and still feeling unmotivated or mentally worn down at times doesn’t make you ungrateful but instead it shows how much you care about doing a good job and about your life. Feeling tired, worried, or overwhelmed doesn’t take away from your capability or your desire to do well. It doesn’t erase all the effort you’re putting in or the progress you’re making.

It’s understandable that thinking about working more hours in the future worries you. Feeling drained now makes it scary to imagine it getting harder, and it’s okay to feel that. It doesn’t mean you can’t handle it , it just means you’re listening to yourself and noticing your limits, which is such a caring and important thing to do.

So many people feel the same way about not knowing where you want to be in life, even if they don’t always show it on the surface. You’re currently figuring things out, learning more about who you are, and what really matters to you. Life rarely follows a straight path, and it’s perfectly natural to feel unsure about your next steps. It’s okay to take your time and explore or change direction. You don’t need to have all the answers right now, or even soon. Being unsure about where you want to go is part of the process, not a sign that you’re failing. You’re giving yourself the gift of awareness, self-compassion and honesty which is very valuable.

You are allowed to need breaks. You are allowed to have days that feel like a struggle. You are allowed to be exactly where you are, with all your feelings, without judgment. You are stronger than you often give yourself credit for.

Thank you as always @Ech0