Breakup

LolaPumpkin13 · January 3

Honestly I just feel like I’m living the same day I just work or stay home

LolaPumpkin13 · January 3

I just feel like I’m living the same life tbh I go to work and then I stay home

LolaPumpkin13 · January 4

I could just really do with some help

Verity · January 4

Hey @LolaPumpkin13 how are you feeling today? we're here to support and listen to you.

LolaPumpkin13 · January 4

Not really great tbh

Verity · January 4

I understand that you are still struggling @LolaPumpkin13 did you get time to look at some of the links that went over? If you don't feel like they are somethinig that you would gind helpful, we'd be happy to look for additional resources for you.

What are you struggling with most today?

LolaPumpkin13 · January 4

I’m just thinking of everything that happened and not really

LolaPumpkin13 · January 4

I just want some help please

LolaPumpkin13 · January 4

I care so much about my ex still I don’t want him to think I broke up with him to do that

LolaPumpkin13 · January 5

But no one can help me

Verity · January 5

Hey @LolaPumpkin13 I know you are struggling today and we're here to listen. Caring for someone that is no longer in your life can be so challanging and confusing, I get that feeling that you may have ended the realtionship but are worried they may think it was for the wrong reason, is that right?

LolaPumpkin13 · January 5

Yep but there is nothing I can do anymore I tried for months to get him back

LolaPumpkin13 · January 5

I’m in so much pain

Verity · January 5

@LolaPumpkin13 what your feeling now is completely validated, breakups are painful and feeling like you there is nothing left to do is completely understandable. I just wanted to ask more about the pain you are feeling, would you say you always feel this way or are there moments where it's not as hard?

LolaPumpkin13 · January 5

Always this way doesn’t help with the way my mother is

LolaPumpkin13 · January 6

I just really need some help

Verity · January 6

Hey @LolaPumpkin13 thanks for sharing this, if you feel comfortable, would you like to share a little more about how your mother is?

LolaPumpkin13 · January 6

Umm she is conastly in a mood always moaning shouting slamming stuff she has attacked me before and I have no one to escape to I use to be able to escape to my exes house but we’re not together anymore

Verity · January 6

Hey @LolaPumpkin13 thanks for giving us a clearer understanding on your situation at home, what you have described sounds frighteing and painful. Being attacked by a parent can be incredibly confusing and distressing, your safety is really important, can I ask if you feel safe right now? Do you have anyone if your life you can go to when things at home may get heated? I'll pop a Dm over to you also.

LolaPumpkin13 · January 7

I just really need some help

LolaPumpkin13 · January 8

Even if I do I move on how can I prove him wrong

LolaPumpkin13 · January 9

I’ve tried getting help even in the relationship I was talking to shout going to counselling but it seeems like no listens and I’m not getting better in fact I’m getting worse

Verity · January 9

Hey @LolaPumpkin13 I'm here to listen, how are you feeling this evening?

It's good to hear that you have been using Shout and Counselling, but I'm sorry to hear that you havn't recieved the support you need. When you say you think you're getting worse, what does this look like for you? What do you most need supportive with right now?

LolaPumpkin13 · January 9

That I keep feeling suicidal scared for the future

Sian321 · 5:31PM

Hi @LolaPumpkin13 , thank you for your post and for being so honest and open about this. I really hear how serious things are feeling. Can I ask, are you able to keep yourself safe tonight?

We'd urge you to contact Samaritans, Papyrus, or SHOUT for 1:1 emotional support, as well as 999 if you do feel at immediate risk of danger.

It really does sound so deeply painful to be going through this, and I hear that you're frightened. We care about your safety. And are sending so much care. We'll drop you a Dm too to check in further.

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