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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 24.11.25

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  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,202 An Original Mixlorian
    hi
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,073 Master Poster
    Im probably just overthinking above like it was back in summer someone was just arguing with me saying to do more courses, do this like Ive done this different stuff, I had someone at a careers fair like saying do courses I said my focus is paid work and they was just arguing with me.
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    Hey there @eylah :heart: hru?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,073 Master Poster
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Finished now, I lost my car in the car park though lol

    Yay, well done for finishing the interview @Redemption and I'll keep my fingers crossed that you find work really soon :heart:

    Really appreciate it, thank you so much @Nemuritai , I should do, I'm probably not going to any courses, I had a couple offered to me, this person kept arguing with me over that and other stuff. I said I don't want to do any more courses or volunteering or anything and they were just constantly just arguing with me over that and just my goals in life like I think its fair to not want to do courses after doing multiple and want to just get a paid job.

    No problem at all @Redemption. That's absolutely fair enough to not want to do courses, it's your decision and people should respect that. I think it's great that you know what you want to do in terms of work, and I'm certain you'll find something soon, hopefully a job that you feel happy and fulfilled doing :heart: We're here for you :heart:

    @Nemuritai You're so nice but I hope you're ok too, I know you found yesterday rough. Its like some courses might have helped me but I have done multiple ones now I just need to move forward now like doing courses isn't going to get me money towards my future house, future in general or a new car or towards much longer term goals and like no point just people arguing with me.
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Finished now, I lost my car in the car park though lol

    Yay, well done for finishing the interview @Redemption and I'll keep my fingers crossed that you find work really soon :heart:

    Really appreciate it, thank you so much @Nemuritai , I should do, I'm probably not going to any courses, I had a couple offered to me, this person kept arguing with me over that and other stuff. I said I don't want to do any more courses or volunteering or anything and they were just constantly just arguing with me over that and just my goals in life like I think its fair to not want to do courses after doing multiple and want to just get a paid job.

    No problem at all @Redemption. That's absolutely fair enough to not want to do courses, it's your decision and people should respect that. I think it's great that you know what you want to do in terms of work, and I'm certain you'll find something soon, hopefully a job that you feel happy and fulfilled doing :heart: We're here for you :heart:

    @Nemuritai You're so nice but I hope you're ok too, I know you found yesterday rough. Its like some courses might have helped me but I have done multiple ones now I just need to move forward now like doing courses isn't going to get me money towards my future house, future in general or a new car or towards much longer term goals and like no point just people arguing with me.

    @Redemption I totally get that, and it sounds like you've thought it through a lot which is really good. And thanks, I'm still struggling a little but I'm just trying not to be too hard on myself for resting more today :heart:
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,073 Master Poster
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Finished now, I lost my car in the car park though lol

    Yay, well done for finishing the interview @Redemption and I'll keep my fingers crossed that you find work really soon :heart:

    Really appreciate it, thank you so much @Nemuritai , I should do, I'm probably not going to any courses, I had a couple offered to me, this person kept arguing with me over that and other stuff. I said I don't want to do any more courses or volunteering or anything and they were just constantly just arguing with me over that and just my goals in life like I think its fair to not want to do courses after doing multiple and want to just get a paid job.

    No problem at all @Redemption. That's absolutely fair enough to not want to do courses, it's your decision and people should respect that. I think it's great that you know what you want to do in terms of work, and I'm certain you'll find something soon, hopefully a job that you feel happy and fulfilled doing :heart: We're here for you :heart:

    @Nemuritai You're so nice but I hope you're ok too, I know you found yesterday rough. Its like some courses might have helped me but I have done multiple ones now I just need to move forward now like doing courses isn't going to get me money towards my future house, future in general or a new car or towards much longer term goals and like no point just people arguing with me.

    @Redemption I totally get that, and it sounds like you've thought it through a lot which is really good. And thanks, I'm still struggling a little but I'm just trying not to be too hard on myself for resting more today :heart:

    @Nemuritai im glad you understand. Is there anything you want to talk here about?
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Finished now, I lost my car in the car park though lol

    Yay, well done for finishing the interview @Redemption and I'll keep my fingers crossed that you find work really soon :heart:

    Really appreciate it, thank you so much @Nemuritai , I should do, I'm probably not going to any courses, I had a couple offered to me, this person kept arguing with me over that and other stuff. I said I don't want to do any more courses or volunteering or anything and they were just constantly just arguing with me over that and just my goals in life like I think its fair to not want to do courses after doing multiple and want to just get a paid job.

    No problem at all @Redemption. That's absolutely fair enough to not want to do courses, it's your decision and people should respect that. I think it's great that you know what you want to do in terms of work, and I'm certain you'll find something soon, hopefully a job that you feel happy and fulfilled doing :heart: We're here for you :heart:

    @Nemuritai You're so nice but I hope you're ok too, I know you found yesterday rough. Its like some courses might have helped me but I have done multiple ones now I just need to move forward now like doing courses isn't going to get me money towards my future house, future in general or a new car or towards much longer term goals and like no point just people arguing with me.

    @Redemption I totally get that, and it sounds like you've thought it through a lot which is really good. And thanks, I'm still struggling a little but I'm just trying not to be too hard on myself for resting more today :heart:

    @Nemuritai im glad you understand. Is there anything you want to talk here about?

    I'm okay right now, but I honestly really appreciate the offer, that means a lot :heart:
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,202 An Original Mixlorian
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    Hey there @eylah :heart: hru?

    hey. im ok hru? <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    Hey there @eylah :heart: hru?

    hey. im ok hru? <3

    I'm okay as well, just trying to get through the day to be honest :heart:
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,073 Master Poster
    People keep arguing with me
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    Morning everyone :heart:
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,073 Master Poster
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Morning everyone :heart:

    Hey, I hope you're ok today
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Morning everyone :heart:

    Hey, I hope you're ok today

    Hey @Redemption :heart: thanks, I'm doing alright today, I'm just trying to rest more atm. How are you doing?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,073 Master Poster
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Morning everyone :heart:

    Hey, I hope you're ok today

    Hey @Redemption :heart: thanks, I'm doing alright today, I'm just trying to rest more atm. How are you doing?

    I hope you get some good rest, I'm ok thanks @Nemuritai
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,073 Master Poster
    Im missing chat during the break but we'll back soon.
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    Im missing chat during the break but we'll back soon.

    @Redemption if you ever want to chat about anything in the meantime, I'm more than happy to :heart:
  • Jack25Jack25 Posts: 85 Budding Regular
    edited November 26
    So much is going on CRHT arranged a joint appointment with CMHT to advocate for me. Unfortunately it’s a lot of we probably can’t do x y z CRHT really pushed for me and advocated I finally felt like what I wanted to say came across. I’m hoping something falls through. They acknowledged the medication has caused me neurological problems but I can only see a medic about it Late Jan 2026 🙄. I hope the neurological effects go they are destroying me, I’m so so unlucky to have had this reaction. They have no plan to support me or get me ‘better’ because they want to continue to ‘assess’ me, . CRHT were so helpful at getting my voice heard though. CRHT said that if they believe I have autism they should be accommodating my needs for the traits they have identified. I really hope things improve quickly I’m struggling with my MH so much now
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    Jack25 wrote: »
    So much is going on CRHT arranged a joint appointment with CMHT to advocate for me. Unfortunately it’s a lot of we probably can’t do x y z CRHT really pushed for me and advocated I finally felt like what I wanted to say came across. I’m hoping something falls through. They acknowledged the medication has caused me neurological problems but I can only see a medic about it Late Jan 2026 🙄. I hope the neurological effects go they are destroying me, I’m so so unlucky to have had this reaction. They have no plan to support me or get me ‘better’ because they want to continue to ‘assess’ me, . CRHT were so helpful at getting my voice heard though. CRHT said that if they believe I have autism they should be accommodating my needs for the traits they have identified. I really hope things improve quickly I’m struggling with my MH so much now

    Hi @Jack25, I'm so sorry to hear how much you've been carrying recently, that must be so incredibly difficult. I really hope you're able to get the support you deserve and that things improve. We're all here for you if you need anything or want to talk anytime :heart: Sending virtual hugs (if comfortable) :heart:
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,073 Master Poster
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Im missing chat during the break but we'll back soon.

    @Redemption if you ever want to chat about anything in the meantime, I'm more than happy to :heart:

    Always appreciate it @Nemuritai
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,202 An Original Mixlorian
    hi <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 2,677 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    hi <3

    @eylah hi eylah, hope your having a lovely day today
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    @eylah @Nathan it's good to see you both - how are you guys doing? :heart:
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 2,677 Boards Guru
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    @eylah @Nathan it's good to see you both - how are you guys doing? :heart:

    Hi @Nemuritai , Im doing alright thanks. How are you?
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    Nathan wrote: »
    Nemuritai wrote: »
    @eylah @Nathan it's good to see you both - how are you guys doing? :heart:

    Hi @Nemuritai , Im doing alright thanks. How are you?

    @Nathan I'm glad you're doing alright :heart: I'm doing okay, this past week's been kind of difficult so I'm just trying to slow down and do things that feel comforting right now :heart:
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,202 An Original Mixlorian
    hi everyone. sry for not replying <3

    im having to deal with a lot atm which is rly impactful for me but im trying to try be ok. i rly appreciate you all <3. hope you’re all ok. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    hi everyone. sry for not replying <3

    im having to deal with a lot atm which is rly impactful for me but im trying to try be ok. i rly appreciate you all <3. hope you’re all ok. <3

    @eylah it's okay, there's no need to apologise :heart: I'm sorry things are difficult right now, I honestly wish I could do something to help. If you want to vent or just chat about anything at all, I'm here for you. I appreciate you so much and I hope things get easier :heart:
  • Lottie5433Lottie5433 Community Connector Posts: 971 Part of The Mix Family
    I can’t sleep right now, and I’m just crying and feel like I’m on the verge of a panic attack. I hate myself for this right now
  • NemuritaiNemuritai Posts: 569 Incredible Poster
    Lottie5433 wrote: »
    I can’t sleep right now, and I’m just crying and feel like I’m on the verge of a panic attack. I hate myself for this right now

    Hey @Lottie5433, I just wanted to check in. I'm sorry to hear about last night, that sounds really upsetting. How are feeling today? We're here for you :heart:
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,027 Boards Guru
    Hey @Lottie5433 , how are you doing this morning? It sounds like it might have been a really difficult night. What was happening for you? We're here to listen if you'd feel comfortable sharing.
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,027 Boards Guru
    @Nemuritai , you mentioned having a difficult week too - I wonder what that's looked like. Slowing down and giving yourself that grace sounds really positive. What's your favorite way to rest lately?
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