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Thursdays

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,844 The Mix Elder
I'm normally with mum Thursdays n I sed 'I don't need support today, ur my support' she replied with 'I hope I'm more than tht'
Was tht a bad thing to say,? daily support is to much wen u notice things nd they points core or they say 'yh well this thing hpnd' if u raise concerns.
No word on the move :(
Crazy mad insane

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  • VerityVerity Community Manager Posts: 15 Settling in
    edited November 20

    Hey @ellie2000 I'm hearing that this text conversation may have caused you some worry? It's great to see that you are usinig the community for advice. From my understanding, you are feeling you may have said something that could have upset your mum, if you feel comfortable sharing, can I ask why you may feel this way?

  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,844 The Mix Elder

    @Verity I feel where I live, they're r trying to take over. I live down the road frm mum in supported living but from wat I noticed its not. I just put 'asleep' on the door to avoid any triggers or confrontation. I'm not a aggressive person, but they switch situations wen their behaviour is off, n then I doubt myself. It even happens wen I'm just asking a question. And they ignore me wen I ask 4 help. I even have to test them n they reply with 'I can't deal with this'' but we got the right ppl on our side. Wen I'm sad I get reminded of activities coming up to look forward to. I'm playing games like 'ori and the blind forest' I gave up on the 'hollow knight' games

    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,844 The Mix Elder
    edited November 21

    A carer sed after I sed I need someone to talk to 'u got SLT' but thts for a deeper issue and not for present day issues

    Crazy mad insane
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,458 Boards Champion

    Hey @ellie2000, just wanted to check in, how are you doing today? You mentioned feeling that someone was trying to take over, which sounds concerning. I'm sorry to hear that you feel ignored, you deserve to be listened to and your feelings are valid. It's nice to hear that you have activities to look forward to, what kind of things are you getting up to? We're here to support you.

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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,844 The Mix Elder

    @Azziman I'm gd, I hav days wen I feel rough, is tht gd?

    Crazy mad insane
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,024 Boards Guru

    Hey @ellie2000 , that sounds difficult - what typically happens on days when you feel rough, e.g what kind of thoughts and feelings do you experience? We're here to listen if you'd like to share more.

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