Why do some workers upset me and it stays with me..

Invisible_me · October 14

Why is it is get upset easily by some actions of other workers and it stays with me!
Shuft recently, I was shaky but didn't like say. None of my 2 'go to' managerd were in. The other one didn't chevk in with me.
So like shaked inside, hunched up, wet to toilets to cry let it out. Came out hunched up again on desk, put head on desk one for the worker said "name not with it today", said "not today, yet". Then I asked a question on bumble bee breathing (it was on my catch up notes). So tge worker decided to 'buzz' so close to me felt like in ear but I'm sensitive to space. Told her "stop', carried on, "no, stop' carried on the said "no stop dont do this to me" then did she stop. Then said "yeah (name) not with it).
It sent like a vibration down me. Felt so uncomfortable...
This is a 3rd instance , different workers, and its playing on me...
U spoke to my manager 2 weeks later after both of those instances and he was nice and told me to keep reporting things if need to but I feel like a nuisance. Also i kinda dealt with it after and seemed "happier" but its still in my head

Azziman · October 18

Hi @Invisible_me, sorry to hear that you're feeling upset about the actions of other workers. Someone has done something that upsets you, and you've done the right thing to ask them to stop, and they've carried on doing it - it's not kind, and your feelings are valid. It seems reasonable to keep reporting this to your manager so they're aware of the situation and can support you. You mention it's different workers who are upsetting you - are they all doing the same thing, or is it different things that they're doing to upset you? We're here to listen to you.

Invisible_me · October 19

Hi @Azziman thanks for reply. I was thinking about talking to manager thurs but I had a bad shift in being very unsettled his response to this wasn't as supportive, he essentially just left me to struggle alone he didn't really check in with me. I had to say can we talk but he didn't really support in facilitating that so just left it. Like my probation is so near ending and id rather not give them another reason to fail me. Also I ended up saying Outloud by accident as like I was overwhelmed, I was fustrated thanking it and it just came out quietlu oh your useless, you dont respond and I thibk he hesrd it as he kept justifying his actions afterwards so....I didn't mean to. Sorry..

Why do some workers upset me and it stays with me..

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