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• Redemption Community Connector Posts: 5,044 Part of The Furniture

  August 5

  nem wrote: »

  Can I ask him to be my boyfriend after five dates

  
  Im not too much clued up on dating, others might be but seems enough to me, I know how nere wracking it can be though, good luck either way.

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• Notrealname6789 Posts: 15 Settling in

  August 5

  
  

  nem wrote: »

  Can I ask him to be my boyfriend after five dates

  
  Hello,
  
  As someone with experience, It just depends on how you feel, and you need to ask yourself the real questions for example, "Do I really like the person?" Ask yourself how you feel when your with him, do you feel Butterflies? do you feel like you can approach him with feelings? do you feel like you can be yourself around him? and some of the more important questions, like, when you look at your future, do you see it with him? but more importantly, ask the most important question not to yourself, because it can drive you up the wall, but to the guy himself.... Do you like like me? or if you feel like that's too childish, ask him do you have feelings for me? these questions can make or break how you feel about the person, but its better than just asking him flat out, because it may feel like it's out of the blue, so next date, what I'd recommend first is asking him how he feels about you, when you know for certain, then go for it if he needs a few days to think about it, give it to him, and you might get a positive outcome!

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• nem Posts: 301 The Mix Regular

  August 6

  I hardly like him. I want a boyfriend

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• nem Posts: 301 The Mix Regular

  August 6

  I’m scared
  The only guys I love are horrid
  I love them
  But they’re horrid
  And I’m all hurt and damaged

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• Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,443 Part of The Furniture

  August 6

  Good evening @nem. It sounds like you are having a difficult time at the moment and just wanted to feel 'wanted', even if you do not particularly like him. Have I heard that right?
  
  When you say the only guys you love are horrid, would you feel comfortable sharing more with us about this? Is this also partly why you want to be with him even though you don't really like him, does he seem kinder, how have those dates felt in comparison with your previous relationships?
  
  I can really hear how you are feeling hurt and damaged and this sounds heavy, especially with relationships having not been a shared feeling previously. We are here with you and care about how you are feeling

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