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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 21.07.25

LeylaLeyla Community Manager Posts: 655 Incredible Poster
edited July 2025 in Health & Wellbeing
This is a space to chat or vent about whatever might be on your mind right now, nothing is too big or small!

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  • RiverRiver Posts: 5,348 Part of The Furniture
    Had to get a copy of my file for my new college about diagnosis and support I’m getting and stuff and bloody hell £22 😭 just print off a screen shot of my file 🥲
    ✨ ℐ 𝒶𝓂 𝒷𝓇𝒶𝓋ℯ. ℐ 𝒶𝓂 𝒷𝓇𝓊𝒾𝓈ℯ𝒹. ℐ 𝒶𝓂 𝓌𝒽ℴ 𝒾𝓂 𝓂ℯ𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝓉ℴ 𝒷ℯ ✨

    ✨ 𝒯ℋℐ𝒮 ℐ𝒮 ℳℰ ✨
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    hey everyone! <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    hi
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?

    hey my favourite twat <3. im very tired hru?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?

    hey my favourite twat <3. im very tired hru?

    Hey @DonnerKebab and @eylah
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    Redemption wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?

    hey my favourite twat <3. im very tired hru?

    Hey @DonnerKebab and @eylah

    hello!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?

    hey my favourite twat <3. im very tired hru?

    Hey

    hello!

    You still tired? I am a bit too
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    edited July 2025
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?

    hey my favourite twat <3. im very tired hru?

    Hey

    hello!

    You still tired? I am a bit too

    im tired from life lol life is tiring but im okie hru
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi

    @eylah good morning my favourite twat, how are you?

    hey my favourite twat <3. im very tired hru?

    Hey

    hello!

    You still tired? I am a bit too

    im tired from life lol life is tiring but im okie hru

    I agree it can definitely be, tiring and exhausting. Im ok just trying to sleep but cant
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    I can't sleep
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,654 Community Veteran
    Hey @Redemption , it sounds like last night might have been difficult, or it was hard to switch off. We're all here if you'd like to share a bit more about that. Hope you can find some restfulness today.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    Sian321 wrote: »
    Hey @Redemption , it sounds like last night might have been difficult, or it was hard to switch off. We're all here if you'd like to share a bit more about that. Hope you can find some restfulness today.

    Cheers @Sian321 I managed to get some sleep in the end, I struggle to sleep all the time pretty much, I usually do get sleep though, I often wake up early hours of the morning then struggle to get back to sleep or struggle worse than others
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,654 Community Veteran
    That sounds really tiring, @Redemption , especially when it happens multiple nights a week. Struggling to fall asleep can leave us feeling really powerless sometimes.

    There's some further support here on SHOUT's page if useful: https://giveusashout.org/get-help/issues/sleep/
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    Redemption wrote: »
    Sian321 wrote: »
    Hey @Redemption , it sounds like last night might have been difficult, or it was hard to switch off. We're all here if you'd like to share a bit more about that. Hope you can find some restfulness today.

    Cheers @Sian321 I managed to get some sleep in the end, I struggle to sleep all the time pretty much, I usually do get sleep though, I often wake up early hours of the morning then struggle to get back to sleep or struggle worse than others

    sending you so many hugs 🫂
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Sian321 wrote: »
    Hey @Redemption , it sounds like last night might have been difficult, or it was hard to switch off. We're all here if you'd like to share a bit more about that. Hope you can find some restfulness today.

    Cheers @Sian321 I managed to get some sleep in the end, I struggle to sleep all the time pretty much, I usually do get sleep though, I often wake up early hours of the morning then struggle to get back to sleep or struggle worse than others

    sending you so many hugs 🫂

    Thank you ❤️ , sending hugs back
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    Sian321 wrote: »
    That sounds really tiring, @Redemption , especially when it happens multiple nights a week. Struggling to fall asleep can leave us feeling really powerless sometimes.

    There's some further support here on SHOUT's page if useful: https://giveusashout.org/get-help/issues/sleep/

    Cheers @Sian321 hope you're well too
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    edited July 2025
    Thank you ❤️ , sending hugs back, hope you’re good @eylah
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    edited July 2025
    Can't sleep again as always. Im so overwhelmed with like i don't know what im going to do when I finish off here like age out and for my job searching I don't wanna do another course but I might have to, I feel behind in life and while everyone else is busy Im sat bored at home not earning money or anything. Im just facing the stigmatised of being unemployed and the pressure. My overthinking has been bad. I get comments thrown at me all the time. Im bugging out.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    I still can't sleep I've been under a lot of stress
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    hey <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,126 An Original Mixlorian
    Good morning @eylah how are you doing?

    All ok here, need to shower but I’m being suuuper lazy rn, so need a big kick up the arse and just get in!
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    independent_ wrote: »
    Good morning @eylah how are you doing?

    All ok here, need to shower but I’m being suuuper lazy rn, so need a big kick up the arse and just get in!

    im ok thankyou for asking. im tired today. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    edited July 2025
    eylah wrote: »
    hey <3

    Hey ❤️, Im always tired too, you ok apart from that?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    edited July 2025
    Ive been running on 3 hours sleep if that so trying to get some now
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    @DonnerKebab wanna chat?
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    Redemption wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab wanna chat?

    @Redemption sure mate, how are things?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    edited July 2025
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab wanna chat?

    @Redemption sure mate, how are things?

    Ok thanks @DonnerKebab just picking up a car for my cousin, hopefully me next with the new car, I wonder what to get lol. What about you?
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    hello!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    hello!

    Hey Eylah, how was your day?
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