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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)

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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,662 The Mix Elder
    :(
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    River wrote: »
    :(

    we’re here for you @River <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,479 Legendary Poster
    i can’t be arsed with this :(. my surgery has been cancelled :/ bc apparently im not fit for surgery & bc they want more tests doing.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    aw @eylah im sorry to hear your surgery has been cancelled:( how are you feeling about them wanting more tests? we’re here for you <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,479 Legendary Poster
    @shannon_164 im not happy bc they had to try 5 times to get bloods last time & im just so upset bc now im probably gonna have to be waiting months again to get a new date. and bc im in so much pain there’s nothing i can literally do. Im so sad :(. thankyou <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    that is so incredibly frustrating @eylah, especially after everything you’ve already endured. it isn’t at all fair that you’re being left in pain like this, with no clear answers or support. you have already been so strong through it all, and i hate that you have to keep waiting and dealing with all this uncertainty:(

    we are always here for you eylah, you don’t deserve this at all - sending you a virtual hug <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,479 Legendary Poster
    i mean there’s not much I can physically do rn bc i cba with everything now. I’m having to live in pain for longer all bc apparently im not fit for surgery which is a load of shit. I’m so fucking done 💔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,479 Legendary Poster
    sry I’m not angry at you shannon I’m angry at myself bc myself isn’t fit for surgery bc of myself so it’s just messed up. all bc of some stupid blood test :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    you don’t have anything to apologise for @eylah - i can only imagine finding something like this out could cause so many different emotions! you have already been through so much, and it’s just not right that they keep putting you through this and leaving you in pain like it doesn’t matter. you have every right to feel completely done with it all. it sounds so exhausting and unfair.

    you really don’t deserve any of this eylah:( we will always be here for you <3
  • LeylaLeyla Community Manager Posts: 241 Trailblazer
    Hey all!!

    A quick update for this thread - we hear how helpful this has been for you so we’re keen to keep something like this going.

    As a team we have noticed that it can be hard for us to keep an eye on safeguarding everything because of how long these two threads (this thread and the other vent/chat thread) have been getting.

    So we’re going to make two threads like this for everyone to use each Monday, but close the previous one each week, so you folks can still use it the same way you have been, but it is easier for everyone to keep track of and you can still see any nice messages you received on the previous weeks!
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