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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,580 Extreme Poster
    edited July 4
    River wrote: »
    I just toss and turn like a donut @DonnerKebab

    @River it sucks. I want to sleep too, but my brothers still awake. We'll manage to get to sleep eventually.

    Anyway, picked up any new hobbies at all?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,629 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab aw how come he is awake still? Is he having a bad night too?

    Yeah insomnia and MADD are my new hobbies 😂😂😂
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,580 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab aw how come he is awake still? Is he having a bad night too?

    Yeah insomnia and MADD are my new hobbies 😂😂😂

    @River I can't sleep until he does. And he won't sleep until he physically is too tired to do anything. He's not mentally capable of understanding the notion of needing sleep, or sleep schedules, he has no concept of it, so he'll just keep going until he pretty much can't help but fall asleep from sheer tiredness. Sleeping tablets aren't effective anymore, and I have to be ready to put a helmet on him at any moment if he starts a headbanging episode, which happen randomly, which means i have to stay awake lol. It's been this way for me since I was 11, so I'm used to it. And yeah, he has bad nights all the time, sometimes good ones. Been a bad night for the last few nights in a row though sadly, so tomorrow will likely be a good one 😂.

    Got to say, interesting hobby picks 😂😂😂 How's Ariel hoop going?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,629 The Mix Elder
    Sounds like me 🥲 I only fall asleep when I can’t stay awake any longer and my eyes are closing hahaha

    I hope things get better with your brother so you can sleep

    Ikr there the best hobbies 😂
    Hoop is going okay although my hands are actually fucked and the back of my knees are green, purple, blue bruising 😂
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,580 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    Sounds like me 🥲 I only fall asleep when I can’t stay awake any longer and my eyes are closing hahaha

    I hope things get better with your brother so you can sleep

    Ikr there the best hobbies 😂
    Hoop is going okay although my hands are actually fucked and the back of my knees are green, purple, blue bruising 😂

    @River ah yes, but you can speak, and understand what words mean, and actually know who I am. You're a step above him rn 😂

    Always the best hobbies. Have you tried paranoia too, it's a really fun pass time 😂😂😂

    And painful stuff, give it time, and go again 😂. I'm stuck at home now till my damn leg heals, and have been trying to find new hobbies myself, all I've found is loneliness and a book I read in A&E 😂
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,450 Legendary Poster
    so bloody bored
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,629 The Mix Elder
    My ears are all muffled 🥲
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,081 Boards Guru
    hi
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,450 Legendary Poster
    hello!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,081 Boards Guru
    how's life? @eylah
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,450 Legendary Poster
    shit lol.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,081 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    shit lol.

    is there anything i can do to make your night better?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,580 Extreme Poster
    Would it be okay if through July, I tagged you in this thread, just to check up on you and remind you during that anniversary month of it, that you are cared about on here?

    @River day 4 of letting you know you are cared about on this community. You've given so much kindness to others, and deserve even more kindness back, and even though you've been through hell, you're still standing, and still moving forward day by day. I'm proud of you. We all are. You should be proud of yourself too.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,629 The Mix Elder
    Thank you TweedleDee aka @DonnerKebab <3
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,694 The Mix Elder
    Hey @DonnerKebab you ok mate?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,580 Extreme Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    Hey @DonnerKebab you ok mate?

    @Redemption Yeah, all good thanks bro, how did things go today for you?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,694 The Mix Elder
    Redemption wrote: »
    Hey @DonnerKebab you ok mate?

    @Redemption Yeah, all good thanks bro, how did things go today for you?

    @DonnerKebab went ok thanks, just looking at my next steps with work next, went for a trim too, what about you?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,580 Extreme Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Hey @DonnerKebab you ok mate?

    @Redemption Yeah, all good thanks bro, how did things go today for you?

    @DonnerKebab went ok thanks, just looking at my next steps with work next, went for a trim too, what about you?

    @Redemption tried going out with crutches to my brothers school summer fait, met mario and luigi, ate pizza, came home and bought another pizza cause mario's one was crap 😂 and then watched my brother all day. Interesting day.

    Bet it's a sick trim. Which style did you get?

    And next steps sounds good. You're getting there bit by bit brother, well done. I'm proud of you, because so many would just throw in the towel, but here you are, still trying, still pushing, despite all the setbacks, still self improving and whilst you have that spirit, you're going to get far.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,450 Legendary Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    shit lol.

    is there anything i can do to make your night better?

    not rly.

    i cba might just leave tbh.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,694 The Mix Elder
    Redemption wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    Hey @DonnerKebab you ok mate?

    @Redemption Yeah, all good thanks bro, how did things go today for you?

    @DonnerKebab went ok thanks, just looking at my next steps with work next, went for a trim too, what about you?

    @Redemption tried going out with crutches to my brothers school summer fait, met mario and luigi, ate pizza, came home and bought another pizza cause mario's one was crap 😂 and then watched my brother all day. Interesting day.

    Bet it's a sick trim. Which style did you get?

    And next steps sounds good. You're getting there bit by bit brother, well done. I'm proud of you, because so many would just throw in the towel, but here you are, still trying, still pushing, despite all the setbacks, still self improving and whilst you have that spirit, you're going to get far.

    @DonnerKebab its just so great you do all that for your bro. I got a 3 skin fade, always got that l. Thanks so much mate, i wish you the best too.
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 1,899 Extreme Poster
    Hey @eylah
    not rly.

    i cba might just leave tbh.

    Sounds like last night and yesterday might have been very hard. How're you doing this morning? Wanted to check in.

    We're here for you.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,450 Legendary Poster
    edited July 5
    Sian321 wrote: »
    Hey @eylah
    not rly.

    i cba might just leave tbh.

    Sounds like last night and yesterday might have been very hard. How're you doing this morning? Wanted to check in.

    We're here for you.

    hey @Sian321 im feeling like utter shit today and it won’t go away. i just cba. :( thankyou for caring abt me though!

    im safe though :):
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,629 The Mix Elder
    My hayfever is having party today ffs 🤧
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,081 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    Sian321 wrote: »
    Hey @eylah
    not rly.

    i cba might just leave tbh.

    Sounds like last night and yesterday might have been very hard. How're you doing this morning? Wanted to check in.

    We're here for you.

    hey @Sian321 im feeling like utter shit today and it won’t go away. i just cba. :( thankyou for caring abt me though!

    im safe though :):

    sending hugs (if youre comfortable with them right now).
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 1,899 Extreme Poster
    edited July 5
    @eylah , that sounds really, really intense and overwhelming. We're here for you, and you're welcome here exactly how you're feeling. I wonder if you've noticed anything in particular that's brought on this strong wave?

    I hear that you can't be bothered right now, and it sounds like you might be very tired.

    I hope you can go gently with yourself today and find some little pockets of comfort. I will share a little meditation here below if helpful at all:
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,629 The Mix Elder
    edited July 5
    - Ignore!! Shouldn’t of posted this -
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 1,899 Extreme Poster
    @River, thank you for your message - I just saw what you posted before you deleted. May I check whether you feel like you need medical attention at the moment? You're being really brave to talk about this, and I can hear you might feel some hesitancy around this.
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 1,899 Extreme Poster
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,629 The Mix Elder
    Oh damn sorry @Sian321 my mum has cleaned it so all okay
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 1,899 Extreme Poster
    @River , that sounds quite sore. It's really positive you've been able to speak with your mum about this. How are you feeling emotionally at the moment?
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