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Hyper sexual

I have hypersexuality
For SURE
I might go to
SAA?
I keep thinking about a guy I had sex with he told me he was a bit of a sex addict
For SURE
I might go to
SAA?
I keep thinking about a guy I had sex with he told me he was a bit of a sex addict
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And should I tell my GP
How do you feel about the idea of seeking some support around your relationship with sex? You mentioned that it feels 'obsessional' and that sounds like it could be anxiety-inducing, with things feeling a bit outside of your control. Thank you for your trust in sharing this. The following places might be a positive place to start if you did wish to look for some further help:
For: Under 25's | Website | Sexual Health | Information and Resources | Support. Brook is the UK's leading sexual health and wellbeing charity for young people. Website contains information and support options for those under 25 seeking advice with sexual health and relationships. - https://shoutlink.info/brook
Is This Ok? Is an organisation that supports young people with anything you are worrying about or finding difficult covering a wide range of topics. If it is something you feel like you can't speak to anyone else about, they are there for you. They can also support you if you are worried that someone else is being badly treated or abused. They have a chatbot which can support you with advice and information 24/7. Is This Ok? use a chat-bot as an easy way of identifying the support you need. The chat-bot will be able to give you advice and information 24/7. You will then have the option to be transferred through to a trained chat advisor who will be able to listen and provide non-judgemental support. Their specialist advisers are available to chat to from 2:30pm- 9:30pm Monday- Thursday and 4pm-11pm Friday, Saturday and Sunday. There are a completely anonymous service and won't ask you for any personal information. They are a service mainly for 13-18 year olds, but if you are slightly older than this and present an issue that they can support with, they will try and help. Their website is https://www.isthisok.org.uk/
You also said you have an eating disorder and might like to get some help from your GP. Again, that sounds really positive to reach out for help. How do you feel about the idea of setting up an appointment to talk about this?
We're here for you, Nem, and thank you for your posts.
Very bad
Thank u
It’s not shameful at all but it’s just about safety
Sex / or sexual activity of any kind can sometimes be stigmatized or illicit shame which is really hard. You deserve to be able to talk about these feelings, and we're here to listen.
You said that you feel worthless right now and this feels linked to the fact that you haven't been sleeping with anyone lately. That sounds difficult, and you're doing really well to share about this. What is that feeling of being worthless like for you? What does it mean to you when you're not having sex?
Just means like I’m worthless
I guess
Not useful
Want to feel wanted I dunno
And
I only like hyper sexual men
Like really sexual
It’s so hard .
Like
I’m scared to say I want sex
Or signal that I want sex
So scared!!!!
To other people
Keep stealing my dads money
Can I ask, what does feeling bad look like for you right now, and in some of the hardest moments?
You asked if you should have sex with another guy in his car, and while we can offer you emotional support around this, we can't necessarily give you a direct yes / no answer. What makes you want to have sex with him, do you think? How do you imagine you would feel if you did?
Thank you for sharing this, Nem. What leads you to steal his money? Is there something specific you're hoping to use that money for?
We're here for you, and you're doing so well to talk about this.
Like meet a guy from tinder or Grindr or something
Never met anyone from Grindr but I’m bi and guys have messaged me on it
There’s a guy from tinder seemed keen to meet
Just Suuuuper eating disorder
So anything to get away from that really
Can I ask if you're currently getting any support around your eating disorder at all?