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@eylah so, if you reach out to the hospital, they might be able to recommend home health care services for afterwards. And you did so great going today, i'm gonna be here for you as much as i can, and i know it's not the same as having somebody with you, but i can help you to find somebody who can be. There could be community support, there could be temporary caregivers, or all sorts
@toffuna101 don't mask it or hide it. it will be exhausting and can make things worse. I'm so sorry your battling with this all, and for it to have come from you and not your voices must be especially terrifying. I'm here for you, and sending a hug if your okay with it.
i have 0 help outside of this community so asking for ppl to stay with me is impossible. and the hospital have already said there’s noone that can stay with me. and it’s so far from home travelling back on public transport after surgery is just impossible. but i find out on wednesday anyway.
are you feeling safe rn?
thank you
tw - suicide attempt
im safe now, i wasnt feeling safe before but i called my dad and he made the atmosphere safe so that i wouldnt have another sucide attempt.
if you’ve harmed yourself you need to call 999 and request an ambulance we’re not able to support you if you’re in active crisis.
Crisis support: https://community.themix.org.uk/discussion/3597021/need-support-urgently
@toffuna101 eylah is right. You need to go to A&E, even if your feeling safe now. I don't know how you tried it, but some stuff can have delayed reactions. So get yourself there, and get yourself seen too. It's the safest option, and they will hopefully see the severity and realise ARC hasn't worked for you and take the next steps. I'm glad you feel safe now, but still go, and be seen to, and they will do more for you and make sure you are 100% safe.
Masking it, or hoping it will go away won't work, and will just make it worse in the long run. I'm so sorry your going through this, get yourself to A&E now.
@toffuna101 River is 100% right. We can offer words of support but not the help you need. A&E will make sure you a physically safe, ensure that anything you did didn't have delayed effects, and will put in place more support than last time and get you help mentally. Your safety is 100% the most important thing right now. If you can't make it on your own currently, ring an ambulance, because this is as severe as any other medical emergency.
Once you've gotten the help you deserve, we're here for you. You are a gem of a human being, and i wish you the best. I understand if you've been sectioned and can't come on here and see this, but just incase not, keep yourself safe and don't feel like your not welcome.
Have you also been able to receive any medical attention since yesterday?
yes im safe. i didnt receive any medical attention. im physically fine.
its ok. i have no idea what i was thinking yesterday.
im physically fine dw @eylah
i cant call anyone because my parents take away my phone at night right now because i could call the police or some random people in times of crisis. so i have to wait until i get better to use my phone at night. i have a psychiatrist appointment next month so ill tell the psychiatrist everything.
can i text them on my computer?
i don’t think so.
ok. i guess childline could work for now then
ill make sure to check that out then
yeah.
@toffuna101 A month is a very long time to wait given the circumstances. Just make sure you tell helplines you reach out to, everything, and if you ever need to go to A&E because your life is at risk, and can't contact emergency services via phone, contact 111 online or contact a helpline and they'll contact emergency services for you. It may also be worth dropping an email to the psychiatrist for possible advice or help.