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And I'm doing fine thanks, how are you?
good luck. im... well, how do i put this... coping. i pulled an all-nighter last night because i couldnt sleep due to the weather. im waiting for my therapist to call me because i need to talk with her about whats been going on these last couple of days since i had an appointment with camhs. i hope she'll have time to call me.
@toffuna101 I hope your therapist calls soon, and we’re here if you want to talk more about what’s going on for you
thanks @independent_ i appreciate it
@eylah ooh enjoy the beach (or try to). I like going for a walk on the beach but hate just sitting on the beach, the sand gets fucking everywhere.
@Redemption thanks so much, no it's me bro I read. I don't commit crimes or anything anyway but nice to hear you'd still be here if I do.
Yh I'll have a think about it bro. I'm just on my course on my break and got annoyed because I was on my phone then got told off for it but someone else was on their phone but didn't get told to put it away yet they were on it more than me so I just stated that person has been sat on it all day on and off.
Glad you're doing fine.
Hey @independent_ that sounds good, making a list and all that. Im ok, just on my course on my break still and got annoyed because I was on my phone then got told off for it but someone else was on their phone but didn't get told to put it away yet they were on it more than me so I just stated that person has been sat on it all day on and off. A staff member just told me to relax and basically not them exact words but yh basically stopped it getting heated. It is unfair, someone sat on their phone all day yet they didn't get told off once. I got told multiple times. One rule for one and another for another, that's what it feels like. Hope you've been OK anyway.
its stuck to my feet now and its going fucking everywhere lol
I'm so tempted to make a star wars related joke 🤣
@shannon_164 there isn't anything silly about it. I know a lot of what that's like, being the only kid in the class who never had a parent show up for a school event where parents sat in with the kids (primary school). I was so desperate for a dad i got my mum to contact him, despite knowing the man he was and the fact he was kicked out for abusing me prior and my mum, and brought him back on the scene for a weekend a week, and put myself through more of his abuse just so i had a dad and wasn't so alone. It hurt so much seeing other kids breeze through with a loving mom and loving dad and never having it myself. It's the worst kind of pain and I got myself hurt and others. Crying for a loving dad isn't stupid. It's what anybody wants. What i did was stupid. What your doing is normal.
But this is something i want you to know shannon. Your dad is a scum of the earth ape, who abandoned his duties, who somehow produced an angel of a person in you. You deserved the best dad in the world and i'm sorry you never got one. Gonna make a demand now - Give yourself a huge hug from me cause you deserve one friend.
@Redemption the war crime thing was just a metaphor. Just to let you know that no matter what, i'm here to talk to.
I get why that would be frustrating for you bro, There ain't much more angering than that. Did they tell both of you off after you said that or did they just ignore you?
And about the therapy if you do give it a go, you can do it free on the NHS, but it has a several month waiting time so the sooner you sign up, the sooner you can try. And you can cancel it anytime and withdraw. it may just be worth getting your name down on the waitlist.
@DonnerKebab no worries all good bro.
They didn't tell me off after that, I tried to stay off my phone. When I get a job I won't get distracted by my phone, I wasn't really distracted just checking a few stuff like here, messages on socials etc. I could probably even leave my phone in my car.
Yh I'll have a look. Also chats aren't on today if you didn't know, not the best but if there's no mods to run them and they are busy, no one to cover available, what more can be done. I'll play GTA instead, maybe seek other support and maybe we can chat here.
@eylah Painful stuff my fellow twat duo member 🤣
Nothing better than a damp cloth on your head and a fan to cool down if you have one. Both those combined is the most effective cooling down method there is, i think.
@DonnerKebab thank you so much. How's your day been? Just disappointed chats aren't on but I understand mods get busy, hopefully it will be on tomorrow. What you been up to anyway?
hey fellow twat member 🤣
@eylah the twat duo reunites 🤣
How are you feeling at the minute?
im boiling hot from the sunburn but im okay fellow twat member 🤣🤣🤣. how’re you?
Glad to hear your doing okay my friendly twat friend 🤣🤣. I'm doing fine thanks. a bit tired from today. It's gonna be even hotter tomorrow
@DonnerKebab glad to hear you're days been decent and your mum has been kind, I hope it stay that way, I really do. I'm sorry to hear about the hectic stuff with your bros toileting issues coming back after you thought was history, good to hear about you project and planning for worse case scenario, army or navy could be a good career. Mines been ok, just was a bit annoying about the phones at the thing, also I told the football guys I'm not coming again and walked out. People say speak to the coach the manager whatever, we had organisers there, no coaches, they are mostly alright but they dont kick anyone out or do anything about the fouling if anything this organiser there fouled someone himself, he kicked someone in the nose, mistake of course but it the organiser is doing it, its not good is it. Then that guy I try to raise the issue that he's going too far in and this guy is defending him so I said a few days ago a few harsh words. I went to the football today as its on today, I just walked in onto the pitch, the organisers asked am I joining today and I just literally said "I'm not coming again" and walked out then went home.
Just got to focus on the positives for today plus it is mostly positives like I went in, good feedback, even just going in which I'm of course supposed to be but I push myself to get up 7 45 which most people will. Anyway Good luck with everything with you though, I hope everything improves. I'm sorry if this is too long for you, please tell me if so.
i can’t physically go out im fucked 🤣
@eylah same, but i've got to still take my brother out on his daily walk each day. Fortunately i've got several cowboy hats to make things a little more comfortable for us. If it weren't for them, we'd come back as half baked roast potato's 🤣
it actually hurts this sunburn 😫🤣 i bloody hope i turn tanned after this
Drink plenty of water btw. That usually helps it heal a bit faster.
hey fellow twat member sry i was watching twitch but you okay?