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@Redemption of course I'm happy venting to you mate. And i really do appreciate it. I think i pretty much got a lot of today across and vented and a few past things too, I'm working on just coming out with pretty much everything soon. It's just hard to properly word and detail you know. But i appreciate you checking in. I'll make a post on boards either later or tomorrow just going over everything. I feel like a bit of a hypocrite encouraging others to get everything of there chests and having not done so myself.
But seriously, glad your okay and still here today. Professor mozzarella must have missed that in his research paper.
dominoes isn’t that expensive down south.
tbh id have to calculate when i next go!
@eylah They used to be so much cheaper here like 10 years ago. Like £20 for 2 pizza's and 2 sides and a drink and a chicken side.
Sorry if this is wrong and i'm just assuming
@River i know it's not a lot, but you really are a good person, regardless of how others have treated you. And you really did make me laugh with that alien comment earlier, despite all the crap that went on for me today. I'm the one who should be saying thank you, not the other way around.
Nobody is perfect @Redemption , and 90% of people would rather pretend it never happened or ignore it, rather than admitting being wrong. That shows strength of character mate that you admitted to being wrong. Frustrations build and come out at random times. It's called being human.
@River I'm gonna miss you a lot if you don't come back one day. Could you maybe just drop in from time to time, and let us know your okay? You really have made a huge impact here and we really do care about you friend.
@DonnerKebab it's just not their problem if I have fustrations plus some of them can't work due to issues so it's bad criticising, I don't normally do I, I don't know what's git into me lately. Also tbh it's up to them even if they didn’t want to work like as long as they aren't committing any crimes and nothing is affecting me its nothing to do with me. I think people are understanding now that I might need a bit of break from football, hopefully anyway, might just have to ease it in that I don't want to go. Hope you're doing better bro, I hope you have a better week.
I know it's a lot to ask, but if you do go, could you every month or 2, if you're able to, maybe just check in and let me know your doing alright cause i really do care for you. I know the Mix has been a hard place for you, especially after that incident in july, and i completely understand why you might want to step away. Promise me it's because you want to step away, and it's not because you don't feel that you don't deserve a place here to be supported, because you 100% do.
And just promise me you'll do your absolute best to look after yourself and be kind to yourself whether you go or stay. You really are an amazing person, and it's gonna be sad to see you no longer here friend.
I get that bro. Frustrations aren't there problem and it was out of order. i'm not saying it isn't. I am saying that you're a good man for admitting to being wrong cause 90% wouldn't admit to that.
can’t promise that friend, sorry, just many factors play into it all tbh @DonnerKebab
Thanks so much @DonnerKebab , I normally don't do it anyway. I think hopefully I could try to leave the football tbh, I don't think it's useful for me, it's not going to get me a job, it's just exercise which I could get anyway like I might buy a bike but I'm not going to become Marcus Rashford or anything from it, I don't make money from it so what good is it, it's not worth getting out of bed for tbh.