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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)

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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @River make sure you let at least one person know now, so you might be excused from the chinese later if you want. If you say your not feeling well come dinner time to avoid eating the chinese, you not feeling well earlier will make it a more viable reason to let you skip it
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @River you will feel sick. it's an incredibly emotional and hard day for you. I'm assuming it's her first birthday since she passed, which was a difficult milestone for me and my family with my gran. It's normal to feel sick during extremely hard emotional times. Sending you a virtual hug <3
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    Posted that video I made on facebook last night and someone’s reacted to it with “👍🏻” that pisses me off so much, how insensitive people got to be :(
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @River I never understood why people react like that when it comes to memorials. the sad emoji reaction on facebook i understand, but nothing else. I guess people react in there own way. I had a cousin who showed up tipsy to his dad's funeral, cause it had sent him into a spiral since his dad was all he had. He's doing better now, but it's why i don't judge.

    But it's your memorial to her, not there's. Don't let them ruin it for you. All that matters is your tribute to her and nothing else. Screw everybody else.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    I blocked them
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @River I don't blame you. Just focus on you and remembering your grandma today. That's all that matters. Anything that get's in the way of that today, just block, or ignore, or shut out.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,905 Master Poster
    turnt my msgs off so ppl can’t msg me 👍🏼 pissed off.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    My mums in a mood with me :/
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    eylah wrote: »
    turnt my msgs off so ppl can’t msg me 👍🏼 pissed off.

    @eylah just want to let you know we're all here to talk to you or just to listen to you if you want. Your still the kindest person in the whole wide world and deserve the world of kindness back <3
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @River why is she in a mood?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    Sorry everyone, got to take my brother on a walk. I'll be 20 minutes or so.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab idk she always is with me, this is why I hate home
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,905 Master Poster
    i can’t be arsed.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    nvm he had a meltdown just before setting out
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @River that's brutal. A tough home situation with your mom always on at you, as well as everything else, on today of all days is just rough. Understandable why you hate it there.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    eylah wrote: »
    i can’t be arsed.

    @eylah it's fully understandable with everything that's gone on for you. It's exhausting after such a long time of constant struggle. But the fact still remains you are a special person eylah who deserves all the love and support in the world.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    Going to the cemetery at 2pm…
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    I give up she hates me and idfk why
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    Sorry @River my brother calmed down and i took him out for his daily walk. Just got back.

    However it is right now, remember, all that matter's is you and your grandma. Nothing else. What you two had. Fuck conventional mourning, fuck expectations, fuck everybody else right now (sorry for the language). Just what you and her had. Nothing else, and that is true tribute and remembrance.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    Hey @DonnerKebab hopw you and your brother are okay <3

    We spent 5 mins at her grave and left and now we are stood at the entrance and there all talking, I just want to go back and sit on the grass :( alone
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    edited June 14
    @River are you allowed to go back? The cemetery we scattered my grans ashes at were within walking distance from my home and i sometimes walk it there. Are you allowed to stay and just spend time, cause 5 minutes doesn't seem like a lot?

    And thanks River, my brother is doing okay now. just the weather causing him to overheat and he can't express it or understand it, so it leads to meltdowns sometimes. <3
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab im gonna ask when it’s just me and mum here, got insulted by my aunt and uncle
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @River what did they say if you don't mind me asking?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,168 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab said I eat to much and that I’ll look like I have a beer belly soon….i don’t even drink…guess I’m not eating ever again :(
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @River you have a fucked up family no offence. They are talking out there arses. If they think it's okay to say that, right near their parents grave, near your grandma's grave, to somebody grieving for them, that tells you everything you need to know about them and their character, or lack of it.

    Trust me, if you were any of that, you would not be able to do ariel hoop, or any of the moves you did. Not drinking alcohol is good, not eating anything is bad. Please don't listen to these absolute morons.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,439 Community Veteran
    edited June 14
    @DonnerKebab sorry bro, I didn't see your reply to me on the thread I think it got closed
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @Redemption all good mate, have you ever seen top gear bro?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @shannon_164 thank you for everything you said in that thread, you're an absolute angel and i want to make sure you know it.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 863 Part of The Mix Family
    @eylah just want to check up on you and hear how your feeling right now. Your an awesome person.
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Community Connector Posts: 2,245 Boards Champion
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @shannon_164 thank you for everything you said in that thread, you're an absolute angel and i want to make sure you know it.

    aw @DonnerKebab thank you so much🥹i do try to use my life experiences in a positive way by supporting others so i hope i can help even just one person a little bit! you’re such an incredible person too and have brought so much to this community in the short time you’ve been here - pls never leave anytime soon!!! <3
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