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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)

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  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    Rose113 wrote: »
    What’s happened @eylah is that because of last night

    its bc they was supposed to ring me 3 weeks ago!! but never did and i complained to the officers this morning bc of it bc i was told they would ring me etc and now they decided to ring me. :/ i cba with this shit man :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    anyone abt? sry to be a pain you rly don’t have to talk to me. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    im here @eylah <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    hey @toffuna101 <3 hru?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Community Connector Posts: 2,245 Boards Champion
    you’re not being a pain @eylah !!! we all care about you <3
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    hey @toffuna101 <3 hru?

    im good. just watched the new how to train your dragon film and it was really good.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    you’re not being a pain @eylah !!! we all care about you <3

    thankyou @shannon_164 i just feel like im bothering you all bc im feeling shit on a daily <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    edited June 9
    eylah wrote: »
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    you’re not being a pain @eylah !!! we all care about you <3

    thankyou @shannon_164 i just feel like im bothering you all bc im feeling shit on a daily <3

    youre not bothering me, dont worry about it. hopefully talking will make your day be slightly better @eylah
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey @toffuna101 <3 hru?

    im good. just watched the new how to train your dragon film and it was really good.

    im debating whether to go watch it or not!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    you’re not being a pain @eylah !!! we all care about you <3

    thankyou @shannon_164 i just feel like im bothering you all bc im feeling shit on a daily <3

    youre not bothering me, dont worry about it. hopefully talking will make your day be slightly better @eylah

    talking abt how i feel does help <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey @toffuna101 <3 hru?

    im good. just watched the new how to train your dragon film and it was really good.

    im debating whether to go watch it or not!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    you’re not being a pain @eylah !!! we all care about you <3

    thankyou @shannon_164 i just feel like im bothering you all bc im feeling shit on a daily <3

    youre not bothering me, dont worry about it. hopefully talking will make your day be slightly better @eylah

    talking abt how i feel does help <3

    you should watch it if youre able to go, odeon does saver monday where if you sign up for odeon extras you get to save money on tickets. odeon extras is completely free by the way, you just have to pay for the tickets and optionally the food. so if youre available next monday you could go and see it there in the odeon. thats why i went today and coincidentally that film released today so it was good for the carer and i since we were one of the first ones to watch it. im glad to hear that talking how you feel does help. <3
    alternatively, you could just wait until the film is available for streaming/to rent/to buy online.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey @toffuna101 <3 hru?

    im good. just watched the new how to train your dragon film and it was really good.

    im debating whether to go watch it or not!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    you’re not being a pain @eylah !!! we all care about you <3

    thankyou @shannon_164 i just feel like im bothering you all bc im feeling shit on a daily <3

    youre not bothering me, dont worry about it. hopefully talking will make your day be slightly better @eylah

    talking abt how i feel does help <3

    you should watch it if youre able to go, odeon does saver monday where if you sign up for odeon extras you get to save money on tickets. odeon extras is completely free by the way, you just have to pay for the tickets and optionally the food. so if youre available next monday you could go and see it there in the odeon. thats why i went today and coincidentally that film released today so it was good for the carer and i since we were one of the first ones to watch it. im glad to hear that talking how you feel does help. <3
    alternatively, you could just wait until the film is available for streaming/to rent/to buy online.

    oh I will have to have a look into that!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey @toffuna101 <3 hru?

    im good. just watched the new how to train your dragon film and it was really good.

    im debating whether to go watch it or not!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    you’re not being a pain @eylah !!! we all care about you <3

    thankyou @shannon_164 i just feel like im bothering you all bc im feeling shit on a daily <3

    youre not bothering me, dont worry about it. hopefully talking will make your day be slightly better @eylah

    talking abt how i feel does help <3

    you should watch it if youre able to go, odeon does saver monday where if you sign up for odeon extras you get to save money on tickets. odeon extras is completely free by the way, you just have to pay for the tickets and optionally the food. so if youre available next monday you could go and see it there in the odeon. thats why i went today and coincidentally that film released today so it was good for the carer and i since we were one of the first ones to watch it. im glad to hear that talking how you feel does help. <3
    alternatively, you could just wait until the film is available for streaming/to rent/to buy online.

    oh I will have to have a look into that!

    alright
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 856 Part of The Mix Family
    @eylah Hey elylah, sorry i've taken a bit to respond. i had to take my brother on his daily walk. How are you today?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah Hey elylah, sorry i've taken a bit to respond. i had to take my brother on his daily walk. How are you today?

    had police banging on my door which triggered me so much :( but im not doing so well. :(
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    hate suicidal thoughts 💔 who cares anyway lol
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    hate suicidal thoughts 💔 who cares anyway lol

    i care <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hate suicidal thoughts 💔 who cares anyway lol

    i care <3

    thankyou so much <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 856 Part of The Mix Family
    eylah wrote: »
    hate suicidal thoughts 💔 who cares anyway lol

    @eylah we all care. Cause your special, and kind. You are warm hearted to everybody on here, and you are cared about and loved in return. <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    tw police ( just mention of them )
    police have come twice today bc I made a report to them 3 week ago but it’s pissing me off bc they came at 8pm? why so late. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    tw police ( just mention of them )
    police have come twice today bc I made a report to them 3 week ago but it’s pissing me off bc they came at 8pm? why so late. :/

    that is quite late yeah. what if you were asleep or something? some people (like me sometimes) go to sleep at 8pm.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    edited June 9
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    tw police ( just mention of them )
    police have come twice today bc I made a report to them 3 week ago but it’s pissing me off bc they came at 8pm? why so late. :/

    that is quite late yeah. what if you were asleep or something? some people (like me sometimes) go to sleep at 8pm.

    idk they came at 4pm and now they came at 8pm its ridiculous. i have a appt tmr so im hoping they don’t come. but if they do come its when im not home bc i cba to see them.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    tw police ( just mention of them )
    police have come twice today bc I made a report to them 3 week ago but it’s pissing me off bc they came at 8pm? why so late. :/

    that is quite late yeah. what if you were asleep or something? some people (like me sometimes) go to sleep at 8pm.

    idk they came at 4pm and now they came at 8pm its ridiculous. i have a appt tmr so im hoping they don’t come. but if they do come its when im not home bc i cba to see them.

    yeah them coming to your house twice is pretty ridiculous to me too.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,902 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    tw police ( just mention of them )
    police have come twice today bc I made a report to them 3 week ago but it’s pissing me off bc they came at 8pm? why so late. :/

    that is quite late yeah. what if you were asleep or something? some people (like me sometimes) go to sleep at 8pm.

    idk they came at 4pm and now they came at 8pm its ridiculous. i have a appt tmr so im hoping they don’t come. but if they do come its when im not home bc i cba to see them.

    yeah them coming to your house twice is pretty ridiculous to me too.

    i guess bc of the nature on why he came 1st i understand why he came back.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,770 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    tw police ( just mention of them )
    police have come twice today bc I made a report to them 3 week ago but it’s pissing me off bc they came at 8pm? why so late. :/

    that is quite late yeah. what if you were asleep or something? some people (like me sometimes) go to sleep at 8pm.

    idk they came at 4pm and now they came at 8pm its ridiculous. i have a appt tmr so im hoping they don’t come. but if they do come its when im not home bc i cba to see them.

    yeah them coming to your house twice is pretty ridiculous to me too.

    i guess bc of the nature on why he came 1st i understand why he came back.

    yeah
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 856 Part of The Mix Family
    @Redemption You doing alright mate?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,166 Community Veteran
    I need to shower but it’s so so so fricken hard 😭
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 856 Part of The Mix Family
    @River after everything that happened, it will be a struggle. Maybe, if forcing yourself to fully get in the shower is a bit too hard, you could do it bit by bit perhaps? Sort of a stupid suggestion, but it's all i've got. Your brave just trying to overcome it, and remember it doesn't have to be overcome instantly overnight. Sometimes it's just small steps that build up to a big one.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,166 Community Veteran
    Curled up in my duvet shaking and sobbing @DonnerKebab might just have to force myself tomorrow
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 856 Part of The Mix Family
    @River , you don't want to force yourself too much. Remember that, pushing yourself is great, but pushing yourself to breaking point isn't, and can potentially make it harder for you. If i were you, i would consider baby steps bit by bit, and work up to it over time if you aren't able to force yourself tomorrow. Things like sticking an arm in the shower and showering just the arm to overcome a bit of it, rather than being 100% in the shower and feeling it everywhere at once which will be overwhelming potentially. I could be wrong, but rome wasn't built in a day. Sometimes, it can take time and be done slowly. I'm here to talk if you want.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,438 Community Veteran
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @Redemption You doing alright mate?

    Yh im thanks @DonnerKebab my course tomorrow so going to head to bed soon but can talk for a couple of hours if you want until 12 ?
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