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Sister and bf

user123user123 Posts: 30 Boards Initiate
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My sister recently found out my boyfriend kissed a girl while me and him were talking at the start but not official and not together yet. My boyfriend told me this because he wanted to be honest. Has he done anything wrong?

My sister has been cheated on in the past and has trust issues and said she didn’t like it. How can I understand this?

I feel like my sister doesn’t like my boyfriend anymore and it’s causing me so much stress.

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  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator, Community Connector Posts: 2,237 Boards Champion
    Hi @user123, I noticed that you've posted about this question on some other threads in the past, and I hear that it's something that you're still struggling with. Well done for reaching out here.

    So that I'm not repeating what others have already said, is there anything that fellow community members here have shared with you already that you've found useful? We're here to support you.
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  • user123user123 Posts: 30 Boards Initiate
    @Azziman thanks for your message. Nothing has really helped I am still feeling so stressed about this and it’s as if no reassurance works. I’m considering talking to my bf about this but I don’t want to make him worry. How could I gently say what I am worried about to him?
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 999 Part of The Mix Family
    Hey @user123 , I hear you, and it sounds so hard to be finding no relief from this worry. I really echo what @Azziman has said here - that you're doing really well to talk about this.

    If you were to have a conversation with your boyfriend, what do you think you'd like him to understand most about this situation? If he were to ask you - 'what is your biggest fear here?', how do you think you would respond?

    It really does sound like this worry has been very overwhelming, and I wonder how you have been taking care of yourself through the hardest moments? Has there been anything or anyone at all that maybe offers a positive distraction, or ways to rest? I hear its extreamly hard when yoiu have this relentless worry, and we're here for you and we're listening.
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