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Should I see this guy

nemnem Posts: 402 Listening Ear
in Sex & Relationships
Should I go to Manchester to see this man? I met him twice already , like a year ago. My closed friend lives there and said I can stay with her. I’ve thought abt him every day for like a yearrrr uhhhh
Like surely won’t die and I can always just go hang out w my friend if it’s weird, she’s my really close friend I’ve known since I was five. Do u think I should ask will u still pay for my fights then could I stay with my friend


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Comments

  • nemnem Posts: 402 Listening Ear
    I’m 23 I’ve never had a boyfriend
  • nemnem Posts: 402 Listening Ear
    He has a bipolar ex and I have bipolar .lol. We made out when we met , first time I was drunk second time I was sober
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,456 Part of The Furniture
    Do you feel like you would be safe and wanting to meet him @nem? It is important you are safe and feel comfortable, only choosing to see people if you wish.

    Would asking your friend to go with you and make sure you stay in a public space help if you are wanting to go and meet him? We care about you and how you feel is really important to us <3
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  • nemnem Posts: 402 Listening Ear
    Idk
  • nemnem Posts: 402 Listening Ear
    lol
    I dunno if I’ll go
    I’ll probably not
    But is that me holding myself back
    Got this idea that I’m bad at saying no
    That if he wants to have sex w me I’ll have to do it I can’t change my mind
    Or idk if I’m scared
    I dunno
    I dunno if I still want him but maybe if I saw him I would but it’s been so long idk if he just wants to shag me and use me and then I’d be sad???:(
    lol
    I’m scared
    Of that
    Scared of sex maybe cus it’s like a power thing
    I dunno
    Like
    Dunno
    O just get scared
    I’m texting another guy and I’m always scared to open his messages

    Do u think this guy seems like a normal person lol not some evil man that’s gonna force me into something
    I just always imagin that
    Lack of control
    Or something
  • Orchid059Orchid059 Posts: 390 Listening Ear
    @nem this is a tricky situation and I would always advise that if you're having doubts about whether you can trust him or not then I think that that is answer enough. If you truly want to get to know him then I would message him for a little longer until you can make a decision whether you feel comfortable meeting or not. I would suggest not meeting up with him if you feel pressured to, or if you're not comfortable. It's really important to not make hasty decisions about meeting people you have only met a few times as not everyone has good intentions which is why it may be usefult to take a trusted friend with you if you do decide to meet up with him.
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