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edited December 2024 in Health & Wellbeing
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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    @Chloe234 i know everything is super hard for you n i really do hear that from everything you have shared - im so proud of you for dealing with so much you’re SO strong!! always here if you need🩷
  • Orchid059Orchid059 Posts: 390 Listening Ear
    @chloe234 I can hear how difficult this is for you at the moment and I know it's so challenging at the moment, but you're here and you're fighting and that's amazing. It's easy to get wrapped up into the downward spiral of our thoughts and that's why it's important to try and distract when you get these difficult thoughts. Is there anything that you have done in the past that has worked for you when you get these thoughts? This could be getting out for some fresh air, going into a different room for a change of scenery, watching a film, listening to music, reading etc.

    It sounds like you're battling yourself at the moment and our brains can be so cruel with the way they make us feel. You are worthy, you deserve happiness and you matter. Things will get easier and it won't always be this way. Have you reached out to any mental health professionals? Perhaps your local talking therapies service. Sometimes just talking to someone can lift the burden off your shoulders again and get you back to taking control over your life again.

    You're so strong and you're definitely not alone in this. Keep reaching out for support whenever you need it <3
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 9,605 Supreme Poster
    hey chloe i can hear how much pain your in and im so sry 💔i see how much your trying each day and im rly proud of what your doing to keep yourself here. is there anything you can try doing to try be kind to yourself? your a very special person chloe your the kindest person ever you rly are ❤️ you put others first instead of yourself im so grateful to call you my friend. remember do baby steps not all at once even if its brushing your hair or splashing water over your face that’s enough for one day. pls keep going chloe you deserve to have a happy life and i rly hope 2025 is your year. you got this ❤️ you can always msg me and ill reply as soon as i can but pls dont bottle things up bc you matter so much! ❤️
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 2,158 Boards Champion
    @Chloe234 sending you the biggest hug. just wanted to echo what the replies above have said. we all know how amazing of a person you are - and a real key part of the community here. even being able to get it down onto your post is something you can be proud of. like the others have said, maybe there is something you can do to find small pockets of happiness throughout the day to day, even just little things that can put a smile on your face for a moment or two and help ease the struggles you are going through.

    we are all super proud of you and here for you whenever you need us :3
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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    @Chloe234 aw that’s so unfair that she took what you were saying as a joke, you deserve to have how you feel taken seriously so i’m really sorry that she done that:(
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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    @Chloe234 you’re not at all pathetic!! it’s a difficult time, and it is ok if you struggle at this time of year - i’m here if you need🩷
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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    @Chloe234 aw:( i’m so sorry to hear that!

    you really are such a caring and thoughtful person thinking about the impact it will have on her even though she has posted about how thankful she is for everyone but you.

    i know it probably won’t mean very much and i get that, but you genuinely are such a lovely person and she is losing out on an amazing friend as you’re such an incredible person chloe, there is no one like you out there🩷
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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    @Chloe234 i really do hear how you’re feeling which is very much valid - i wouldn’t at all say you’re being ungrateful though!!

    i know it’s a super hard day for you so i hope it goes really quickly🩷
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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    aw @Chloe234 that sounds super difficult! i’m sending so much love your way🩷

    is there anything you can do to make yourself feel better, even if it’s only a little bit better?

    i’m always here, if i can help in any way pls do let me know!
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 9,605 Supreme Poster
    sending you so many hugs chloe i know ive said this before and will continue to say it but im so incredibly proud of you! your one of the few who i see have been through so much difficult stuff but have managed to get through it. im here if you wanna talk today ❤️ hugs 🫂
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,768 Boards Guru
    Hugs @Chloe234 sounds like it’s been a really hard day. None of it makes you stupid or ungrateful 🫂
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    @Chloe234 you don’t need to apologise!! it’s ok if you didn’t feel able to cope and none of what you’re feeling is stupid - it’s so so valid🩷
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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    @Chloe234 i hope you’re ok - pls do reach out if you need support you are SO deserving of it!! here for you always🩷
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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,523 Boards Guru
    @Chloe234 aw that sounds so difficult:( i can’t even imagine how you must be feeling but she’s lost a really amazing friend for sure!! we care about you🩷
  • briannatbriannat Posts: 114 The Mix Convert
    Hello Chloe <3

    Friendship breakups are awful, I'm sorry you're going through this right now. What have you been up to today?
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