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its not looking good :( TW

RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,466 Community Veteran
in Health & Wellbeing
TW: medical, doctors and hospital, cancer

so yesterday i found out my grandma isnt okay as shes lost most of her mobility and because my grandad is elderly too hes struggling with helping her. my grandma has had cancer on and off since i was 11 and shes had different sorts and recenrly it came back in her neck and she had treatment but cos of the sudden decline my family think its because of that :( my mum had to go round at 11 to help them into bed and she came back at 1:15 am in tears saying its not good and they think she will be in hospital tmr, im trying to stay strong for mum but its so hard :( i cant loose my grandma :bawling:
Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.

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  • Lucy_21Lucy_21 Posts: 245 Trailblazer
    I’m so sorry hon, don’t be scared love I’m right here for you please please message me anytime. You do not have to be alone in this I’ve said it before call me just to cry if you want but just know you are so strong and I’m here for you and I’m praying for you both ❤️❤️Xx
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,466 Community Veteran
    edited November 2024
    Today we find out what’s gonna happen with my grandma :( I’m scared
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 2,025 Boards Champion
    hey @Rose113 - i'm so sorry to hear about your grandma and that she isn't doing well at the moment. fingers crossed when you find out what will happen it is something okay and manageable. sending lots of hugs to you and your family <3
  • briannatbriannat Inactive Posts: 114 The Mix Convert
    Hey @Rose113 this sounds like such an uncertain and overwhelming time for you and your family. I can really empathise with the emotions you're going through here. Having someone you cherish go through a life changing illness is incredibly difficult. I hope you're able to lean on your family for emotional support and find small moments of comfort such as a favourite meal or snack, a show or film that makes you laugh, or whatever it is that makes things feel just a bit less heavy. Please keep posting and letting us know how you're doing and what's going on, we're here with you <3
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,466 Community Veteran
    shes been taken to hospital by ambulance
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,466 Community Veteran
    I’m so scared
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • amy02amy02 Inactive Posts: 405 Listening Ear
    Gosh we are here for you @Rose113 Sending hugs to both you and your family during this difficult time <3 You are not alone in this and we will be here to support you
  • Lucy_21Lucy_21 Posts: 245 Trailblazer
    Hey lovely I know I’m not here like usual right now but I am thinking of you both hon, don’t worry what ever happens you are not always ❤️❤️Xx
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,466 Community Veteran
    Thanks @Lucy_21 its really not good :(
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Lucy_21Lucy_21 Posts: 245 Trailblazer
    You’re welcome lovely message me if you want and we can talk as I doubt you’ll be getting much sleep tonight ❤️❤️Xx
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,466 Community Veteran
    She’s going to be in the hospital for a few days :/
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Lucy_21Lucy_21 Posts: 245 Trailblazer
    Don’t panic hon, she’s with professionals that will look after her ❤️❤️
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,437 Part of The Furniture
    I can really hear how impactful this is @Rose113, especially being a similiar situation to what I have experienced before. How are both of your grandparents at the moment? I am thinking of you and here with you <3
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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,466 Community Veteran
    @Laura_tigger82 my grandma passed away on December 15th
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
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