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  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,994 Master Poster
    im being referred to a urologist to i cba😭.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 5,253 Part of The Furniture
    Im so sorry that you have to go through all this right now @eylah <3 At least though you are being refered to a urologist who can have a proper look at what's going on and can figure out an action plan for you. However, that sounds so tough right now. Sending hugs <3
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,994 Master Poster
    thankyou today im in lots of pain it hurts just wanting this appt to hurry bc i cant live like this. :(
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • ellaella Community Manager Posts: 485 Listening Ear
    Just popping in to say we are all sending hugs Eylah. Soon you'll have the answers you need and deserve. In the meanwhile, do you have any main pain management strategies? You are doing so well- it takes a lot of strength to live with this much pain <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,994 Master Poster
    might need to go a&e bc i think my infection has spread to my kidneys bc the pain is unbearable im trying to not to bc it’s so triggering for me. :/ im using heat liquid meds i cant afford a tens machine. :/ but would love one bc it would help sm.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • JJLemon18JJLemon18 Community Connector Posts: 2,104 Boards Champion
    Hi @eylah I'm really sorry to hear all of this, it sounds like such a struggle for you and I'm really sorry you have to go through all this. I don't know what to say or how to help but I'm sending you big big (but gentle) hugs and the best vibes your way! Take lots of care of yourself <3
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,994 Master Poster
    JJLemon18 wrote: »
    Hi @eylah I'm really sorry to hear all of this, it sounds like such a struggle for you and I'm really sorry you have to go through all this. I don't know what to say or how to help but I'm sending you big big (but gentle) hugs and the best vibes your way! Take lots of care of yourself <3

    thankyou this msg helped a lot <3. i appreciate the hug sm <3.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • AoifeAoife Inactive Posts: 3,222 Boards Guru
    How are you feeling today @eylah?

    I'm so sorry to hear how much pain you've been in and you think your infection has spread. Did you manage to go to a&e in the end or seek any medical advice? Another option could be to ring 111 if you think you need medical help or advice on what to do <3

    Let us know how you're feeling today :)
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
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