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could be cancer 😭
eylah
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i’m so scared just been to my dr appt abt results to check for cancer etc and its not gd but shes sending me for urgent ultrasound of my pelvis im so scared bc she said its internal to but could be a guy ive asked for female bc of past trauma. she said my tests are abnormal with the results and shes wanting to eliminate other causes but she isnt sure im so scared. rn i need mum but shes in heaven im so sad 😭. i’m in constant pain its agony im so tired of everything.
keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍
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fingers crossed that things turn out okay and whatever the outcome is - you are so strong and we are here for you as always
sending lots of hugs
I know it's difficult, but try to focus on taking things one step at a time. The ultrasound is just another way to get more information and understand what's going on
I completely get the importance of having a female doctor, and I hope your doctor can accommodate that request- they should be able to if you have asked in advance. It's so important to feel comfortable and safe during your appointment and I want to empower you to ask for any accommodations which will help with that.
Sending hugs, (if comfy)
For now, it sounds like they're being diligent by doing a thorough examination to rule it out- I've also been in that situation, and I found it helpful to focus on the first thing to hand: having a scan, and then going from there. There can be symptom overlap between less serious issues and more serious ones like cancer, so scans help them to take care of you and to not miss anything- to cover both the less serious and more serious scenarios.
It is especially hard to not have your loved one when you need them beside you the most. I'm really sorry, pain can be so tiring, particularly when combined with the upheaval of a scary medical experience. Sending a big hug your way.
We're here for you. X
im waiting for a scan letter to come through bc thats next steps for figuring out whats happening inside but im just so anxious but ik mum is by my side through out all this even by spirit. thankyou all for replying and being kind.
Do you know when your internal scan will be? Sending lots of hugs your way
no not had a letter yet unfortunately but i got another scan today bc of different condition but that appt came in quick so idk how long im gonna be waiting bc i need it asap. thankyou aoife .
I've seen your other thread about your other scan which I've just replied to. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs your way
like the others have said, whilst i don't know the ins and outs of how the whole process works, i'd be surprised if they didn't let you have the ultrasound. i know it's all scary but you've been so brave and are doing so well.
we are all super proud
sending hugs
I can really hear how much pain you're experiencing and I hope the ultrasound will be able to help work out what's happening and possible treatment to reduce the pain you're experiencing. Is there anything you've found helps manage the pain a little bit? I hope you're able to rest lots while you're waiting for your appointment