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My college tutor told me the other day that I need to learn how to help myself (hard to think of exact wording) before I help others
Basically he's saying I've got an issue where I tend to help those around me even when my MH is shit
My sister (friend whom is a sister figure) told me that I help others before helping myself because I'm a trauma victim and have had to deal with it by myself so I help others before helping myself because I know what it's like to be in there shoes. From which I've been compared to everything from a DA councellor all the way to young carer support worker to reminding them of there safe person/ close friend
Basically he's saying I've got an issue where I tend to help those around me even when my MH is shit
My sister (friend whom is a sister figure) told me that I help others before helping myself because I'm a trauma victim and have had to deal with it by myself so I help others before helping myself because I know what it's like to be in there shoes. From which I've been compared to everything from a DA councellor all the way to young carer support worker to reminding them of there safe person/ close friend
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We are always here for you
I've shared my trauma previously when I was active on boards but I will re share the trauma @Orchid059
But ur lucky to be able to understand others going through pain.
But make sure to look after yourself aswell 😉😍
Sending love ❤️
Are you new here sindy just because I haven't seen you active here much