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Rose113Rose113
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Found out my grandma has cancer again
Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.

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  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe
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    Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear that. Sending big hugs :heart:
  • GemmaGemma
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    This is so sad to hear @River, can imagine this must have been crushing news. We're here if you'd like to share more <3

    Sending you lots of hugs too <3
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  • Rose113Rose113
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    edited September 2024
    Thank you @Gemma @AnonymousToe @Past User

    Gemma - idk what to do with myself 😕 I feel like my heart has been smashed 😖 the last 3 times were hard to deal with knowing I could loose the only person that understands me 😭
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    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • GemmaGemma
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    River wrote: »
    Gemma - idk what to do with myself 😕 I feel like my heart has been smashed 😖 the last 3 times were hard to deal with knowing I could loose the only person that understands me 😭

    That's totally understandable @River - I can really hear how much you're hurting right now. I know from personal experience too how hard-hitting news like that can be about someone we love so dearly. It's like a mixture of shock, pain, fear and anxiety for what comes next. It's really horrible. <3

    I'm sending so much strength to you, your grandma, and your family. What are the doctors saying about the diagnosis? <3
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  • ameliaJayneameliaJayne
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    @River I am so sorry that is really devastating news. My heart hurts for you.

    Try to be around people who love you and make sure you keep sharing how you feel. We are all here for you on this journey River. Sending you lots of strength.

    Keep checking in with us. <3
  • Rose113Rose113
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    Thank you @ameliaJayne

    I'm going to see my grandma today
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • ameliaJayneameliaJayne
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    @River I hope you have a wonderful time with her. Cherish these precious moments as I know you will.

    Sending hugs. <3
  • sinead276sinead276
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    Sending you so much love and lots of hugs. I can't even imagine how hard this time is for you right now. but know we are all here to support and listen to you.

    I hope you have a wonderful time with your grandma today :smile:
  • ebyrne556ebyrne556
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    So sorry to hear this River such sad news cant imagine how sad u must b feeling but we are here for you if u. Sending lots of hugs and strength hope u had a great time spending time with her yesterday <3
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  • Amy22Amy22
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    @River I am so sorry to hear that your grandma is going through with that right now. That must be very stressful for everyone including you. I hope you are doing okay during these trying times and that you know you always got us too if you ever need someone to talk to <3. I am sending you a hug <3.

    Sending hugs,

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  • Rose113Rose113
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    all i hear is cancer this, cancer that. why cant people irl just shut up about it, its driving me mad and i cant cope with that being the constant talk
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Amy22Amy22
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    edited February 2024
    River wrote: »
    all i hear is cancer this, cancer that. why cant people irl just shut up about it, its driving me mad and i cant cope with that being the constant talk

    I can imagine how stressful and triggering that must be to go through every single day to even hear that word must bring a lot of stress on your shoulders. I do feel like it has been talked about quite frequently lately, and sometimes when a topic affects us on a personal level it can be quite tiresome to have to endure seeing that topic every single day. I'm always here if you need someone <3. My DM's are always open as usual <3.

    Sending hugs,

    Amy
    Just a person who likes pop culture and films
  • MaisyMaisy
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    Sorry to hear about your grandma, River. Understandably you wouldn't want to hear people constantly talk about cancer when it's a difficult time for you. I think it can help to try to avoid the news (if you can) and ask those who are talking about cancer in real life, to try not to talk about it in front of you. Take care <3
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