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Former MemberFormer Member Gym lover :/Posts: 84 Budding Regular
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Hey, I've been feeling down and a bit lonely lately and came across this website. ( I have no clue how to work this website out) Hope everyone is okay :)
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,456 Part of The Furniture
    Hey @Iris_Mizzy. Welcome to The Mix's Community. It is great to see you have joined us.

    You have mentioned feeling down and a bit lonely lately. Would you like to talk to us a little more about this at the moment? We are here for you and listening to you if you would like to share more.

    Also, if there is anything you are particularly struggling to navigate, please do not hesitate to let us know if there's anything we can help with :)
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Gym lover :/ Posts: 84 Budding Regular
    I have been having low moods a lot it comes randomly every day, when im in a low mood I dont wanna talk to anyone no interacting i dont wanna eat i just wanna sleep. I dont trust the people i live with and they wouldnt understand ive tried to explain it to them already.
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,456 Part of The Furniture
    That sounds really difficult for you @Iris_Mizzy, especially since it comes randomly every day and you don't feel understood :/ Would anything, in particular, be helpful at the moment? <3
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Gym lover :/ Posts: 84 Budding Regular
    Not that i can think of Ive tried alot of things.
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 5,456 Part of The Furniture
    That sounds really difficult @Iris_Mizzy :/ We are here with you. How is your mood today? <3
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Gym lover :/ Posts: 84 Budding Regular
    Down quite a lot but I will get through it :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Connector Posts: 1,294 Wise Owl
    Hey @Iris_Mizzy welcome to the mix :) I get how u feel and ik loneliness is such a shit feeling but we're all here for u! <3 I understand the not talking to people thing. Sometimes when I feel shit it feels like my mouth has been sewn shut because I really don't have the energy to even say 'hello' to someone. And I know it's a lot easier said than done but please try your best to be eating and sleeping well! Staying hydrated is also super important! I know it doesn't sound like much but it can really make a difference.
    I dont trust the people i live with and they wouldnt understand ive tried to explain it to them already.
    How come you don't trust them? Is there anyone else you could turn to like friends or a trusted teacher at school? You deserve lots of support and love! And I'm here if u wanna talk more about anything :)

    Sending hugs!
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,553 Boards Guru
    Welcome to the community @Iris_Mizzy - glad to have you on board! I'm sure that there will be several here that can relate to your experiences, so you're certainly not alone :) As Laura mentioned, please do give us a shout if you need help getting around, or have any questions about how to use the site!
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Gym lover :/ Posts: 84 Budding Regular
    I don't trust them because I've tried so many times and all the other times I've tried they ask questions and seem not to understand, get me someone professional to talk to on the phone or take me to a therapist when all I need is for them to just listen, but i end up leaving them confused or worried.
    I have to best friends but I don't want to worry them or push them to far putting stress on them e.g.
    I will try my best with eating. :)
  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 5,817 Part of The Furniture
    Hi @Iris_Mizzy welcome to The Mix, I look forward to seeing you around on the boards.

    Sending hugs,

    Amy22 <3
    Just a person who likes pop culture and films
  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Connector Posts: 1,294 Wise Owl
    Hey @Iris_Mizzy how are you feeling today? I hope your Sunday is going well <3

    Sorry to hear they don't understand and don't seem willing to support you. It's great to hear you have good friends though! It's ok to rely on them a little bit, I'm sure they'd hate to hear you're struggling and feel alone and would love to support you. I understand feeling like a burden though and not wanting to put too much stress on them. What's the support system like at your school? Maybe they could help u?
  • JustVJustV Posts: 5,635 Part of The Furniture
    Welcome to the community @Iris_Mizzy! Glad you found us. :)
    All behaviour is a need trying to be met.
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  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 2,349 Boards Champion
    Welcome to the mix @Iris_Mizzy
  • Former MemberFormer Member Gym lover :/ Posts: 84 Budding Regular
    At my school its very complicated, I cant trust no adults there they will just report it to my adults, my adults will ask questions then its more likely it will turn into an argument. I've tried soo many times.
  • JJLemon18JJLemon18 Posts: 2,104 Boards Champion
    Hello and welcome! I'm sure you'll get used to all this over time, but if you need any help then please ask. I'm looking forward to seeing you around.
    Take care of yourself! Sending hugs :)
    Believe in me - who believes in you
  • Former MemberFormer Member Gym lover :/ Posts: 84 Budding Regular
    thank you :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Miss Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 132 The Mix Convert
    Hey @Iris_Mizzy welcome to the mix! It is a lovely community to share your thoughts and feelings and I hope you feel that you are able to do this :) How are you feeling today?
  • kaiikaii Posts: 672 Incredible Poster
    Hello @Iris_Mizzy, I hope you're okay at the moment, I hope you enjoy your time here at The Mix :3<3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Community Manager Posts: 319 The Mix Regular
    Hey @Iris_Mizzy - Happy one week anniversary! I just wanted to drop by and say hello. It's really lovely to have you as part of our community <3
  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Posts: 1,232 Wise Owl
    hey @Iris_Mizzy welcome to the mix.Hope you enjoy it here
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Gym lover :/ Posts: 84 Budding Regular
    I'm feeling okay today. :)
  • AoifeAoife Posts: 3,222 Boards Guru
    Welcome to the community @Iris_Mizzy it's lovely to have you here :)
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
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