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My Partner 😊
awesomeminecraft6789
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Hey guys,
So I thought I'd make a post talking about my Partner, she's an absolute joy to have and I couldn't be happier 😊she makes me happier than anyone I've been with, also eight months together I can't believe it honestly, it feels like a dream but it's not it's reality and I can't stop smiling every time we talk or I think about her.
Considering Ive been thinking I'm a freak, I keep thinking that I'm not enough, but I'm starting to believe I am, she honestly makes my life better although I probs make hers worse as I'm not a big help, but I'm really trying to help, even though Ik I'm not enough but I will keep trying to help her anyway I can
So I thought I'd make a post talking about my Partner, she's an absolute joy to have and I couldn't be happier 😊she makes me happier than anyone I've been with, also eight months together I can't believe it honestly, it feels like a dream but it's not it's reality and I can't stop smiling every time we talk or I think about her.
Considering Ive been thinking I'm a freak, I keep thinking that I'm not enough, but I'm starting to believe I am, she honestly makes my life better although I probs make hers worse as I'm not a big help, but I'm really trying to help, even though Ik I'm not enough but I will keep trying to help her anyway I can
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I love her so much.
This is beautiful, thank you for posting, how are you?
You absolutely are enough, and I am SO happy to hear that you are starting to believe that you are. Your partner sounds wonderful
I have but I don't know if she's taking it in
Just following on from what @Lucy307 said, you mentioned that you don't feel that she is taking in your concerns about how you feel you may not be a help too her and that you are making her life worse.
It can be difficult when we have these worries, and sometimes reassurance is what we need too help things feel a little more clear.
How do you feel about being able too broach the subject with her again, if needs be?
Jade
I feel like now if I need to tell her I can even though its hard lol
Thank you for sharing. It's so easy to feel this way when you have self doubt and you have met someone amazing and feel it's too good to be true. I've been with my partner for just over a year now and when I feel moments of intense love, it's sometimes tainted by feelings of abandonment because I don't know what I did to deserve him or what I would do if he left me. To the point I'm not enjoying it as much as I could be because I'm paranoid.
When you were honest with her the first time, what made you feel like she wasn't taking it in? It's great that you feel like you can tell her now if you need to, of course these conversations are going to be hard and uncomfortable when we are opening up. We could go through years with our partners feeling this way but some people are worth the risk of getting hurt. It's amazing that you're starting to believe you are enough because self love really is the key to contentment!
You've spent 8 months with her so enjoy every moment together.
Allow your relationship to flourish and more importantly allow yourself the love you deserve.
YOU ARE ENOUGH ❤