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Family issues

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
in Health & Wellbeing
Is it right for me to find a solution, it does my head in coz I can't do anything, how do I direct stuff
Crazy mad insane

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  • TheMixTheMix Posts: 3,327 Boards Guru
    edited August 2022
    Hi Ellie,

    You've been really brave to reach out to make this post today.

    I wondered if you could tell us a little more about what it is that your trying to find a solution to? I'm not quite sure what you mean at the moment, but if you would be able to tell us a little more then others might be able to share their thoughts or experiences with you. What is going on that is doing your head in at the moment?

    Take care,

    Harry and The Team :)
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    i got whatsapp msgs frm mother, saying her mover pulled out of selling. i told her to get revenge. bc the ppl tht bullied me got away with just a slap. i try to keep busy to ignore wats goin on. i think i was set up to fail n i dont no wat my future holds. i get involved in other ppls issues by accident rather than focus on myself. i dont no wat i want anymore so i just play games n sleep
    Crazy mad insane
  • Former MemberFormer Member Discussion Boards Moderator, Staff Posts: 143 Helping Hand
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    i got whatsapp msgs frm mother, saying her mover pulled out of selling. i told her to get revenge. bc the ppl tht bullied me got away with just a slap. i try to keep busy to ignore wats goin on. i think i was set up to fail n i dont no wat my future holds. i get involved in other ppls issues by accident rather than focus on myself. i dont no wat i want anymore so i just play games n sleep

    @ellie2000 thank you so much for sharing this with us. I'm hearing that in the past you've been bullied and feel as though the people who bullied you got away with what they did.

    It sounds really difficult that you're dealing with those feelings right now, alongside not knowing what your future holds for you! It can certainly be difficult to be in that space of not quite knowing what comes next, though from what you've shared, I get the sense you're a really self-reflective person Ellie! You've mentioning feeling as though you haven't been able to focus on yourself; are there any changes in particular that you'd wish to make?

    When you say you told your mother to get revenge, would you feel comfortable sharing more about this and how your mother responded to that?

    Speak soon!
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    How do I pay attention and give comfort to myself?
    The seller tht pulled out got asbestos removed. Wat tht is no clue? It cost mum alot of money, I felt tht she told me bc she sees me most. Wen she told me wat was happen I felt tht I had to hav a solution
    Crazy mad insane
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