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Help. SH

SienaSiena Posts: 15,759 Skive's The Limit
in Health & Wellbeing
Having a bad night and bad life and SH cause I’m sad. Finding it hard to stop rn
~Probably dead now

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  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,759 Skive's The Limit
    How do you know when you need medical help if it’s not your ‘normal’ way of self harming
    ~Probably dead now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 119 The Mix Convert
    Hi @Siobhan

    I'm so sorry things are difficult right now, do you think you would find it useful to talk about why you've had a bad night and a bad life? You don't have to if you don't feel comfortable sharing - no pressure!

    Do you feel as though your self harm is treatable at home? if not you should seek medical attention. Without knowing the way in which you self harmed it's difficult to suggest whether you would need medical help or not.

    I hope this was some sort of help, were all here for you if you'd like to talk about your feelings <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,171 Wise Owl
    Hey @Siobhan I’m really sorry you were feeling this way last night ☹️ Can we talk some more about what’s been going on for you? Anything you want to share that may have triggered this, or nothing in particular and just feeling awful?

    Always here for you
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,759 Skive's The Limit
    Thanks. I had a problem at work with my self harm so I had to tell a manager. Manager rang ambulance. But wouldn’t bring ambulance so two managers have dropped me off at a&e
    ~Probably dead now
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,759 Skive's The Limit
    I’m scared I’m going to get suspended. I didn’t do it in work hours it was the night before but problem came up and they said needs stitches and is bad so ringing 999. I kept saying yeah dont neee to do that as it is not bad and asking if I’m going to be suspended but didn’t say much about it
    ~Probably dead now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,171 Wise Owl
    Hey @Siobhan did it go ok at the hospital? I understand the fear about repercussions at work but genuinely don’t believe you can be suspended for hurting yourself (imagine if you were poorly with Covid or something and they suspended you for that?). Have you managed to speak to anyone from work about it to clarify?

    Really hope you’re doing ok, sending hugs 💜
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,759 Skive's The Limit
    Lucy307 wrote: »
    Hey @Siobhan did it go ok at the hospital? I understand the fear about repercussions at work but genuinely don’t believe you can be suspended for hurting yourself (imagine if you were poorly with Covid or something and they suspended you for that?). Have you managed to speak to anyone from work about it to clarify?

    Really hope you’re doing ok, sending hugs 💜

    Thank you But I’ve already been suspended twice and mostly down to hurting myself. They deemed me too unwell to be at work so yeah can happen:(. Scared I’ll lose my job this time but I haven’t heard from them yet
    ~Probably dead now
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