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My best friend is of the opposite gender
Kate_20
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My mum said that it is all my fault that I cannot make my best friend of the opposite gender my boyfriend. She said that that is because I shared everything with him in the past (including asking his opinions about if I should be in a relationship with other guys) so that I am not attractive. She does not understand our friendship. She thinks that I am not mature enough to have a boyfriend.
Tengo el alma en cuarentena y roto el cuerpo
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
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I am so sorry to hear your mum said this to you
I think friends of the opposite gender can just stay friends!
You don't force love. I think recognising this makes you more mature
Sorry to hear that. Do want your best friend to be your boyfriend or are you happy to be friends? I agree with @Laura_tigger82 , friends of the opposite gender can happily be friends and that doesn't need to change to live up to other peoples expectations. Also, whether you are ready for a boyfriend or not, that is completely up to you! Everyone has a different timeline and sometimes slow and steady wins the race
xxx
Welcome and thanks for already getting stuck into the discussions on The Mix community. It is wonderful to see all the support you are already providing. A huge thank you from me, your support is super valuable! How are you today?
Qué dolor, qué pena y qué tormento
El Kanka - Lo mal que estoy y lo poco que me quejo
How are you?