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I'm back (maybe)

dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
edited December 2021 in Introduce Yourself
Don't know where to post this so figured I'd come here and reintroduce myself. I'm Tori, been a while since I've been on here because my life has been hectic, alot has changed. But I'm hoping to start being more active on here.

On the 10th of December my life changed forever, I welcomed my baby boy into the world. It wasn't as planned, I had to have a emergency c-section at 32 weeks 5 days. Baby (Damian) is in NICU but is making amazing progress everyday, and won't be in for much longer all being well.

(moderates, please may I post a pic of my baby, not sure if it breaches rules)

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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,086 Part of The Furniture
    Hey @dancertori

    It is wonderful to see you have returned!

    Aww, congratulations on the birth of your son. I hope Damian can come home soon :)

    I'm not a mod so hopefully, a mod will let you know soon! <3
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  • DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    Hey @dancertori, nice to hear from you.

    Congratulations on the birth of your little one. I hope Damian can come home soon and I hope you’re doing okay too xx
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
  • gia9720gia9720 Posts: 117 The Mix Convert
    @dancertori hey tori - welcome back :) Congratulations on baby Damian🥳 ♥️ How exciting !!
  • BrookeeBrookee Posts: 1,327 Wise Owl
    Hey @dancertori

    Welcome back to the community! It's okay to be absent, life is unpredictable, just know we're always here if you ever need any support :) I hope Damian comes home soon, but I understand this can be a really difficult time so don't hesitate to reach out if you ever need anything!!
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Hey @dancertori

    Welcome back. :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
  • AifeAife Community Manager Posts: 3,026 Boards Guru
    Welcome back to the community @dancertori it's so lovely to see you <3

    Congratulations on your new baby boy Damian, I'm glad to hear he's doing a little better and making good progress. Do keep us updated with how he's doing and also how you're feeling, we're here anytime you'd like to reach out for some support.

    In terms of sharing a photo of him, we don't allow photos of babies shared publicly on the discussion boards just because it's such a public space and we want to keep everyone safe. If you wanted to send a photo through private message to someone that would be okay to do <3
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,739 Master Poster
    Omg it's lovely to have you back. It has been a long time. I hope that you are doing well. (It's Kasa before you wonder who on earth I am.)
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,086 Part of The Furniture
    Aww, it is lovely to see how many people are happy about @dancertori's return!

    Such a wonderful community we have :)

    I hope you are feeling the community's love @dancertori <3
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